HeHe, Goodtime. You have me laughing again! Lick your toes!?!? Oh God,
not that submissive! Geesh! The other comments are right on though!
Speaking personally though, I could never hurt a man or spank
him or anything. I would be the worst Dominatrix ever! I know you still
think I am a certain person you already see, but I am not. That's why my response
shocked you so much.
What I always find so interesting about sexual preferences is that people
are usually the opposite sexually than what they are in real life. It's the
very dominant man in real life (CEO's, President's etc..) that like to be dominated
in bed and the submissive man in real life who is normally shy, that likes to dominate
in bed. I saw a small series on Sex TV about the Top 10 sexual desires/fetishes
and the psychology behind those sexual preferences. From what I remember:
To be dominated in bed: The man or woman in real life is very dominant and
controlling and to ease the guilt they feel for dominating people, they allow
themselves to be domniated in bed to help rid themselves of the guilt they
feel for sometimes mistreating/taking advantage of people in their real positions
in life.
The Peeping Tom: The Peeping Tom was said to have been raised to believe that
sex/sexual desire is wrong and dirty. Perhaps from being caught masturbating
or being with a magazine/girl at a young age by one of their parents and scolded
and reprimanded for it. Thus, by only Peeping at people through windows and such,
they did not have to be responsible for creating the sexual situation. Their
culpability was erased when the act was being done by other people.
Dressing Up: (Secret desires to
Fireman - To be rescued
Policeman - To be punished/scolded
I wish I could remember more of the series. It was so interesting.