Personally i dont see the big thing in DFK. I spend my time avoiding it from a MPA.
I dont want someones tongue in my mouth when i dont know where else that tongue has been. Just saying. And i dont care how well she's brushed her teeth and used mouth wash.
Just picture that girl was just slobbering all over some 70 year old and you are next. Lol!!!
I get where you're coming from but in some ways it depends on the girl. If she's high mileage and does dfk (and all sorts of other things) with any Joe blow, then for sure I would agree with you. But with an MPA that you find attractive and is low mileage, then dfk is definitely cool.
I must admit I got hooked on two of my current faves because we did lfk on the first visit. But holy shit, were they ever low mileage after that, at least for a very long time. In my case, the kissing, physical attraction and good massage were the reasons I kept seeing them.
But yeah, if I don't find them attractive, I wouldn't even want to kiss them...