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[Uncle Sam]

CP mentioned about Vegas girl which I would consider was emotionally driven and not just fucking..

Regards
Basu

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Yes, I was emotionally attached to her. Paid jeep EMI every month for her, paid her apartment rent every month, paid $2k expenses every month for her, etc. This was all to get her stop being a slut. I was successful, but had to spend the above mentioned numbers on her to fulfil her needs. And what did I get in return? 2-3 times sex every month I visited her.

Wife suspected me. Marriage relationship was deteriorating. Then the jeep incident happened. Sometimes I feel, upar wala played the jeep incident drama to get me out of this. Otherwise, I would have been separated from my wife by now.

Yes, I agree I am pragmatic. I still stick to the chicks I like in DB (or indies) but without being emotional.

I just called her a whore and we are done. At least that’s what it looks like as of now.



Time to fetch new pussies and new muses.

 

[Lustking69]

My humble opinion and personal experience is, it is very hard to develop that emotionless transactional interaction with girls, particularly bar girls right from day one. I am sure most of us would have gone through that with one bar girl atleast and have developed the fuck all attitude as we monger more.

Without any disrespect or presumption, some of the mongers I think are the most pragmatic (based on what is written by them) when it comes mongering are LK69, bbmk, CP, apparulez.. and I think even they would have gone through this emotional cycle atleast once at the beginning of their mongering phase. CP mentioned about Vegas girl which I would consider was emotionally driven and not just fucking..

What am I trying to say? Usual random thoughts!!

Point is, for those who are starting mongering, this forum is wealth of information not just on bars and girls but the most important: how to avoid mistakes or minimise it !! Even if you make it, there is always a precedence and therefore move on !!


Regards
Basu

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You are right Basu da,at the start of my mongering career I was that desperate guy who would always give the girls more than what was required.I have learned through experience,from spending 800 on Rani,to spending 400 on Liza for the same amount of time and fun,I have grown as a monger after spending so much time with the girls.
There are few girls I stick to,but there is always this one girl in every bar I like the most.I remember earlier days and learned from these girls pyschology.Everything is planned beforehand,right from denominations...one pocket has money for tips to girls,other for waiters and my back pocket right for Bill and left back pocket for extras.
There is a place for everything,beauty of this city.
For girlfriend experience and service there are SBs.
For dance and entertainment there are DBs/OBs.
For fuck all experience there are joints at Grant Road.
Sab kuch try Karo,fir sahi chuno
Regards,LK69.

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[Basu1970]

OB hopping - Tuesday September 3.

locate my ATF (Shilpa)

AA did introduce me to his favorite at Heaven6...
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All time favourite - as of September 3rd? Any possibility it will change before you leave to US? I mean, have you seen anyone yet that will take the title?!!!!

To his favourite... Should it be "to one amongst his favourites"? I mean which monger has just one? You seem to be an exception with Shilpa !!!

Great post as always OL.. looking for more in the coming week...

Regards
Basu

BTW, I am in between jobs and have lot of time.. that's why all these stupid messages.. ignore me !! I will be gone in another week !!!



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[Lustking69]

The other day I was shopping at a mall,came out and saw a girlfriend fighting with his bf for cheating on her.She was crying and sat on foothpath in the rain asking explaination from him.Just realized how lucky I am to taste new girls without the fear of being caught.I was a dud then (before discovering this forum) now a dude,this forum is like a treasury I found.
Berangsi Zindagi se iss rangeen Zindagi ka Maza milega kabhi sochana tha.Thanks to each and every member of this thread for their FRs.Special thanks to MK for the pile of information he put up.
Happy mongering,LK69.

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[mumbai monger]

Yes, I was emotionally attached to her. Paid jeep EMI every month for her, paid her apartment rent every month, paid $2k expenses every month for her, etc. This was all to get her stop being a slut. I was successful, but had to spend the above mentioned numbers on her to fulfil her needs. And what did I get in return? 2-3 times sex every month I visited her.

Wife suspected me. Marriage relationship was deteriorating. Then the jeep incident happened. Sometimes I feel, upar wala played the jeep incident drama to get me out of this. Otherwise, I would have been separated from my wife by now.

Yes, I agree I am pragmatic. I still stick to the chicks I like in DB (or indies) but without being emotional.

I just called her a whore and we are done. At least that’s what it looks like as of now.

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CP
Felt sad on your story above. Like you i had helped plenty girls. Your expenses surely on higher side but just help and get detached. We must have wife or gf (only one) at heart and keep these girls at feet or dick. Never ever think about them. Just play and forget. Raat gayi baat gayi. I do also get plenty of offers but i just give cold looks. Db girls for dance, sb for physical plays, indies/ nl ch girls for fuck and wife/ gf (only one) at heart. Never ever wife or gf let even think you are cheating. If you feel some stick to home so that she says go out. Once you go out with someone wife knows try to call her and make sure she hears other person so she trusts you. When you are out for kill make sure you inform friend to handle the situation. When she finds your number is switchoff or unreachable she will contact that fellow and he can say story which you must also repeat once at home.

Dhyan rakhna ghar na tute. Shyam ka bhoola air ghar pe lauta. Ghar ki toot gaya kidhar jayega?

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[mumbai monger]

The other day I was shopping at a mall,came out and saw a girlfriend fighting with his bf for cheating on her.She was crying and sat on foothpath in the rain asking explaination from him.Just realized how lucky I am to taste new girls without the fear of being caught.I was a dud then (before discovering this forum) now a dude,this forum is like a treasury I found.
Berangsi Zindagi se iss rangeen Zindagi ka Maza milega kabhi sochana tha.Thanks to each and every member of this thread for their FRs.Special thanks to MK for the pile of information he put up.
Happy mongering,LK69.

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Yes on teachers day, we must say thanks to all great people on thread to help us and move forward in any bad situation.

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[Uncle Sam]

CP
Felt sad on your story above. Like you i had helped plenty girls. Your expenses surely on higher side but just help and get detached. We must have wife or gf (only one) at heart and keep these girls at feet or dick. Never ever think about them. Just play and forget. Raat gayi baat gayi. I do also get plenty of offers but i just give cold looks. Db girls for dance, sb for physical plays, indies/ nl ch girls for fuck and wife/ gf (only one) at heart. Never ever wife or gf let even think you are cheating. If you feel some stick to home so that she says go out. Once you go out with someone wife knows try to call her and make sure she hears other person so she trusts you. When you are out for kill make sure you inform friend to handle the situation. When she finds your number is switchoff or unreachable she will contact that fellow and he can say story which you must also repeat once at home.

Dhyan rakhna ghar na tute. Shyam ka bhoola air ghar pe lauta. Ghar ki toot gaya kidhar jayega?

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Right bro. I am sure my wife knew I was involved with some girl during those days. Without letting me know - She chose to forget/forgive (which I find very difficult to do as I have bad temper, and you all know this probably). I am lucky to have such Wife, that too via arranged marriage. Couldn’t be more lucky.

I care for her now and that has made up for the damages.

I wish I was single. Could have mongered without any limits. I suggest folks not to get married. Enjoy your life to the fullest. Waise bhi BC population is on the rise.

 

[Sunsun]

CP
Felt sad on your story above. Like you i had helped plenty girls. Your expenses surely on higher side but just help and get detached. We must have wife or gf (only one) at heart and keep these girls at feet or dick. Never ever think about them. Just play and forget. Raat gayi baat gayi. I do also get plenty of offers but i just give cold looks. Db girls for dance, sb for physical plays, indies/ nl ch girls for fuck and wife/ gf (only one) at heart. Never ever wife or gf let even think you are cheating. If you feel some stick to home so that she says go out. Once you go out with someone wife knows try to call her and make sure she hears other person so she trusts you. When you are out for kill make sure you inform friend to handle the situation. When she finds your number is switchoff or unreachable she will contact that fellow and he can say story which you must also repeat once at home.

Dhyan rakhna ghar na tute. Shyam ka bhoola air ghar pe lauta. Ghar ki toot gaya kidhar jayega?

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Well said brother, As we all are matured enough now. You just remembered those college golden days, everyone try on new-2 girls and most of the time get succeed to convince her to bed. After sometime we forget that and move to another one but now the condition is different. We all have families and the responsibilities towards them. Now, we don't have that much time to spend behind any girl that's why we chooses OB/DB/SB/Indie just for enjoyment without wasting/spending too much time.
For now, remember one thing if you are doing anything that doesn't matter where are going but your family life should not disturb by that. Because this enjoyment is only temporary but the family is a platform where you have stay all your life.

 

[TyrionLannister69]

Borivali FR - You get what you ask for!

Was in Borivali on an official visit and after wrapping up work, decided to roam around for a while & have some snacks/lunch (whatever you call it at 4 PM) before heading home. The weather and the fact that I had been off drinking for a while made me favor a bar over a "Veg only" restaurant and there I was, settling down with a Budweiser in a normal bar with no plans of mongering, especially in a place like Borivali where one hardly gets any action (as per my earlier visits way back during the start of my mongering career). But our brains, ahh, they work in very surprising ways, triggering desires at the very moment when they sense just a hint of weakness...

As many of you might be aware, our brain stores memories by associating them to a particular feeling or a sensation and the moment those sensations/feelings are repeated, it triggers the response that you had earlier provided which led to creation of those memories... And hence, we face situations where one might end up associating monsoon with one's exes cos of the romantic long drives taken or even just a whiff of perfume brings back memories of you fucking that one lady somewhere, sometime and all you can think of is repeating the same experience just for the sake of it!!

For mongers (especially me) - it is the songs that trigger memories of my recent DB visits and when Saaki Saaki blared on the vintage TV of the bar, I knew the song was going to prove a hell lot costlier than the original Bud and Paneer Tikka! While gobbling up the delicious tikka, weighed my options - it was either travelling all the way to Dahisar Check Naka or compromising on the fun by choosing Borivali bars - the lazy, tired me won over and Borivali it was...

Despite knowing it was too early to get the action started, dragged my feet to the first stop of the day - Green Park - and headed straight to the first floor... The place was brightly lit and filled with 15 to 20 odd ladies, in various sizes, shapes and dresses with only 3 tables occupied by what looked like tourists... One noticeable thing about Borivali and Dahisar bars is that the ladies double up as waiters as well and serve you drinks while they try to seduce you - sitting together is ofcourse a no-no but a Rs. 50 tip allows you to grab/squeeze/spank butts depending on the rapport that you develop with the ladies...

Relics of the golden era gone past were on display as milfs in their late 30s and early 40s made their way in and out of the dressing room, most of them not giving a dime about putting on some make-up to appear appealing and hence the ones who had ut in some efforts easily captured eyeballs and were being tipped in 20s by the "tourists"... played the waiting game for a while, hoping for a miracle but lost patience after 1 beer and began flirting with a tall slim milf in her late 20s (probably the youngest of the lot).. What caught my fancy was her choice of clothing - I am sure she would have been complimented a thousand times on the massive rack that she balanced on such a slim waist - and she proudly showed it off, adjusting her one-piece a little lower every time I tipped her a 50....

The DJ, a diehard Kumar Sanu fan, continued to torture us with hideous lip syncing and attempts at dancing before an old gentleman (70+ if you focused on the years, 25ish if you focused on the fun that he proceeded to have) walked in... From the way, the waiters, managers and the DJ rushed to greet him, i jogged my memory to figure out if he was a celebrity of some kind! And the moment he settled, we were transported from the melodious (but cheesy) 90s to the groovy and happening present!

And as if taunting me for calling this place a museum a thousand times over in my head while struggling to finish my beer, in walked a gorgeously stunning and insanely mesmerising beauty in a radiant red ghaghra choli - striking me like a bolt of lightening striking a stranded ship right in the middle of no-fucking-where! Without even caring to glance at the "peasants" occupying the other tables, she headed straight to the "king"s throne, my eyes following her and her golden (ofcourse dyed) smooth curls that extended long enough to cover her ass as well... To my surprise, she bowed down in reverence to the gentleman(or was it to simply provide a sneak peak of those perfectly shaped cutiepies - only the gentleman knows) before moving away and teasing him, moving her hair away to give a glimpse of her hourglass figure ending in a curvy waist adorned by the tattoo of an angel and her wings (well, this seems like the most popular choice of tattoo for these girls)...

For the next hour or so, nothing else existed in my universe as I shamelessly ogled at her dance for the gentleman, gyrating to Taki Taki followed by some insane hair slapping moves to Manali Trance, moving on to some booty shaking to Bom Diggy, almost breaking the floor to Aisa jadoo Dala Re (fuck, she was bewitching) and upping the show with a sensuous performance on Humara Haal hum Kya Bataye!

I was awakened from my dream by the manager reminding me that I was almost done with my 2nd beer and if I would like to order more to which I gladly replied in affirmative before letting her grab my attention once again by both my balls as she switched gears to Arabic music and began dancing to Jamil jamil, ohh ohh and to my pleasure, Ya habibi!! I could not convince myself to let my eyes wander off her and get my milf to dance so I continued to watch her, like the younger kids who wait for their turn on Playstation while their elder siblings are having a time of their life - desperately hoping that parents would force the elder ones to study...

With the mood set for the evening, I waited for 15 odd minutes, finishing my beer as the seductress continued to milk the gentleman who probably mistook 20s for rose petals as he continued to shower her - the climax ( at least for me before I headed out) being her teasing the lucky guy with her feet while she perched herself on the table, her legs roaming over the guy's white kurta in sync to "Raat Ka Nasha abhi" while he watched her without a single expression on his face!

Realizing I would have to wait for a lifetime to get my turn at the playstation, settled the bill and headed to Club69 to find myself another playstation with a lesson well learnt - no matter where you are, you always get what you ask for!

Eager to implement the lesson learnt, entered Club69 (after proving my worth to the doorkeepers with tips and references of a dozen more bars on the western line)!
More on Club69 to follow!

Ps - this was almost a week back.

 

[dms100091]

Mumbai I am back. Anybody in Cabana now.

 

[sleeper]

Hii, Can anyone please suggest me dancebar to visit as a newbie.

 

[Uncle Sam]

Hii, Can anyone please suggest me dancebar to visit as a newbie.

Which location are you at? And which location you wanna visit?

You want to fuck DB girls or just make them dance?
Or just want to go and watch?

 

[Kooldude11]

Yes, I was emotionally attached to her. Paid jeep EMI every month for her, paid her apartment rent every month, paid $2k expenses every month for her, etc. This was all to get her stop being a slut. I was successful, but had to spend the above mentioned numbers on her to fulfil her needs. And what did I get in return? 2-3 times sex every month I visited her.

Wife suspected me. Marriage relationship was deteriorating. Then the jeep incident happened. Sometimes I feel, upar wala played the jeep incident drama to get me out of this. Otherwise, I would have been separated from my wife by now.

Yes, I agree I am pragmatic. I still stick to the chicks I like in DB (or indies) but without being emotional.

I just called her a whore and we are done. At least that’s what it looks like as of now.

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Time to fetch new pussies and new muses.

Sir pls don't write in Chinese next time or Korean may be..

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[Uncle Sam]

Sir pls don't write in Chinese next time or Korean may be..

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Its simplified Chinese. When I try to say something complex (or big sentences, she finds hard to understand) in those cases I translate for her.

 

[sleeper]

Which location are you at? And which location you wanna visit?

You want to fuck DB girls or just make them dance?
Or just want to go and watch?

HI buddy thanks for responding I'm located in andheri, I feel that my life is getting too boring just going in normal bars and drinking on the weekends going back home, I wanna go next level and what better than exploring a dance bar! For the starter I'm just looking to make them dance and drink couple of beers.

 

[Bar Junkie]

Yes, I was emotionally attached to her. Paid jeep EMI every month for her, paid her apartment rent every month, paid $2k expenses every month for her, etc. This was all to get her stop being a slut. I was successful, but had to spend the above mentioned numbers on her to fulfil her needs. And what did I get in return? 2-3 times sex every month I visited her.

Wife suspected me. Marriage relationship was deteriorating. Then the jeep incident happened. Sometimes I feel, upar wala played the jeep incident drama to get me out of this. Otherwise, I would have been separated from my wife by now.

Yes, I agree I am pragmatic. I still stick to the chicks I like in DB (or indies) but without being emotional.

I just called her a whore and we are done. At least that’s what it looks like as of now.

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Felt Sad...

If this was my case, I would have continued as a friend, no strings attached.
No daily talks but occasional visit to her place. Making her realizing slowly that it's give & take relationship.

Bandi sahi lagi thi ....

Last rainy season ki baat hai....
I was completely unaware with the locality where she had called. Almost 2 old monks down & accidentally got my feet drenched in mud. No shop nearby to buy water to wash it off.

When I reached to the place, She removed my jeans. Washed my feet with her hand. When I woke up in morning saw my jeans clean & dry which was kept under the fan.

She was a whore too, but never liked whenever I say that word for her.

Koi nahi karta itna apne liye, Kabhi kabhi koi utna kar deta hai.

We sometimes win the game but lose them.....

 

[Sweetdreamer29]

Right bro. I am sure my wife knew I was involved with some girl during those days. Without letting me know - She chose to forget/forgive (which I find very difficult to do as I have bad temper, and you all know this probably). I am lucky to have such Wife, that too via arranged marriage. Couldn’t be more lucky.

I care for her now and that has made up for the damages.

I wish I was single. Could have mongered without any limits. I suggest folks not to get married. Enjoy your life to the fullest. Waise bhi BC population is on the rise.

Bro, with the amount of mongering you do, I am surprised how your wife is not aware of Korean, Tijuana or Navi Mumbai.

Or may be she has chosen to look other way on these extra curriculars also.

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[Uncle Sam]

Bro, with the amount of mongering you do, I am surprised how your wife is not aware of Korean, Tijuana or Navi Mumbai.

Or may be she has chosen to look other way on these extra curriculars also.

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I understand your doubts. However I also love my wife and that neutralizes it. My Tijuana trips are when my wife is in India for vacation. And she doesn’t know if I am there.

Navi Mumbai trips: I usually say I am going to meet my old college friends or colleagues. Its understandable as I visit India once or twice a year. Only this time I booked hotel and stayed for 3 days. I told I am going to Goa with friends. Didn’t show any Goa pics, that was the only suspicion but its not a big deal for her.

Korean and other girls: This is all about maintaining different mongering phone, etc. When I see girls, I do after office hours and say I have to stay in office late for work. I don’t Monger during weekends when wife is with me. And that takes away most of her doubts. Only in rare scenarios I do and that too carefully. For example: During weekends I May say I need to go do car servicing which takes 2-3 hours. I say I would wait at the service center (instead of dropping car there, doing Über and coming back home and stuff. Here car service Centers have free massage chairs, so there is good reason to wait). But then I take Über and see some chicks. Its all about smartly managing our activities.

Wife knew about White chick only because of this mistake: Since White chick was driving Jeep in Vegas, I had to add her to insurance. I did and the updated insurance documents delievered to my home address. Wife opened it. Nevada state (different than my state) insurance with my name and White chick name (she mentioned as my wife on insurance) coupled with my frequent trips to Vegas got her to suspect me. Besides this, I haven’t made any other mistake...yet. In General, my wife is cool though and doesn’t suspect me.

PS: Don’t ask me what excuse I gave to my wife on insurance documents. I made up a crazy story.

 

[mumbai monger]

I understand your doubts. However I also love my wife and that neutralizes it. My Tijuana trips are when my wife is in India for vacation. And she doesn’t know if I am there.

Navi Mumbai trips: I usually say I am going to meet my old college friends or colleagues. Its understandable as I visit India once or twice a year. Only this time I booked hotel and stayed for 3 days. I told I am going to Goa with friends. Didn’t show any Goa pics, that was the only suspicion but its not a big deal for her.

Korean and other girls: This is all about maintaining different mongering phone, etc. When I see girls, I do after office hours and say I have to stay in office late for work. I don’t Monger during weekends when wife is with me. And that takes away most of her doubts. Only in rare scenarios I do and that too carefully. For example: During weekends I May say I need to go do car servicing which takes 2-3 hours. I say I would wait at the service center (instead of dropping car there, doing Über and coming back home and stuff. Here car service Centers have free massage chairs, so there is good reason to wait). But then I take Über and see some chicks. Its all about smartly managing our activities.

Wife knew about White chick only because of this mistake: Since White chick was driving Jeep in Vegas, I had to add her to insurance. I did and the updated insurance documents delievered to my home address. Wife opened it. Nevada state (different than my state) insurance with my name and White chick name (she mentioned as my wife on insurance) coupled with my frequent trips to Vegas got her to suspect me. Besides this, I haven’t made any other mistake...yet. In General, my wife is cool though and doesn’t suspect me.

PS: Don’t ask me what excuse I gave to my wife on insurance documents. I made up a crazy story.

CP
Play safe man. All wives are like volcanoes yoy never know whats goes inside unless it errupts out. And when its out nothing is left.

Me also play wisely and knew my wife tactics and all. So i like chess keeps players stories at right place. At home society office i am ek dam sharif banda. My wife looks really good i know but her 3 4 friends are very very hot. Those females have kids but maintained much well. I never look at them or talk to them. If i speak then its only word or two. Even at office i dont pay much heed to hotties on face etc. So wife knows this as well. So thing is like if someone tells my wife about indies db sb adventure etc i am sure she won't belive it. Funniest thing is sometimes due to gala with friends i leave NM by closing time hence i reach home late. Then wife with suspiciously asked couple of times WHERE YOU HAD BEEN? My answer is I WAS AT BAR WITH HOT GIRLS. She will stare at me and i say i will put hands on kids and say same thing. Then she only will say i know you were working late in office hence yoy were late. There is reason why she says this. After bar escapades i go to airoli office swipe card on door and leave for home. So if she asks proof i have swipe records to show plus if she needs confirmation from colleagues its always easy being manager to tell junior do as directed.

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[mumbai monger]

HI buddy thanks for responding I'm located in andheri, I feel that my life is getting too boring just going in normal bars and drinking on the weekends going back home, I wanna go next level and what better than exploring a dance bar! For the starter I'm just looking to make them dance and drink couple of beers.

UC aka CP and other are very helpful ppl

But bro write down on your mind that these db sb ob girls are leaches with human body. They will suck your money and brain out. It doesn't matter to them whether you end alive or dead. Just ask yourself how much is budget and whats your requirements. I have seen smart ppl takes good girls at dirt cheap prices whereas welthy ppl left empty handed even after throwing cash bundles. You must be smart enough to mentally get closer to girl with your smartness, genuine looks and fun loving guy.

My free advise will be visit bars ie db sb ob mentioned here and just visit for observations. Dont spend 1 rs also. Just look what others do and learn. After couple of visits each for couple of places will be good learning curve to get started.

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