dance bars in navi mumbai

[atsexd]

I have a doubt if coatwala & waiters who keep a watch on such cash transactions directly to girls do ask for a cut for the bar.

Once I saw a girl passed on Rs 500 note that I gave to her - giving immediate to the coatwala. I don't through if it was for safe keeping or for bar cut or anything else.

Yes, bar girls prefer us paying directly to her. If we order bundle, the bar will cut some percentage (usually 40%). And then from rest 60% girl will get 80% or something.

On my last day, I got 2k notes from ATM instead of 500. Went to Deepika and made Rubina dance. Started with 2k for 3-4 songs. She looked around and put the note inside her blouse. I understood what’s going on.

From then on, I was giving her the 2k notes when no waiters were around us. In between I was also keeping 500 note on her phone so that waiters don’t suspect.

That day I understood why waiters surround our table and keep watching us. It is to keep track of this kind of Jugalbandi that bar girls do!

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[TyrionLannister69]

Read in one of those cheesy Insta posts that if someone drunk dials/texts you - you should be proud that the person is thinking of you even when he/she cant think straight...

Well - the forum (and members) must be proud today for the love you have shown bhai...

What a co incidence...


PS: in drunk state: so pardon me for all the emotions and forgetting u.

Forum: u have become the part of life which takes away the stress from the day.

A Big Cheers:

a

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[KoolShot]

Yes i did the same.. but how to avoid that too.. and just pay for my drink and let her not order


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sorry to interrupt...y wud u not spend on ladies drinks in a ladies bar. remember it's the norm to do so. in such bars, it's ok for a customer to drink water but a ladies drink in a ladies bar is her drink or rather say her source of income, apart from other tippable pleasures she offers to customers.

I think this is the attitude v most Indians carry to Pattaya n other famous mongering destinations, resulting in all Indians getting banned from the bars there.

so if u want to enjoy in a ladies bar anywhere in the world, have a budget for ladies drinks equal to ur number of drinks + tips for other pleasures.

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[Uncle Sam]

Yes i did the same.. but how to avoid that too.. and just pay for my drink and let her not order


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Its difficult. All girls will ask for drink in SB and DB. They earn from it.

Asking them to share your drink is a way to minimise the damages. Other way is to give them 50% cash of their drinks amount. This way you save 50%. This is assuming girl would be getting 50% of her drinks cost if you order one for her.

Either way, their job is to extract money from you. I too consider these girls deserve a drink from each customer they see. Its fair enough to pay for a drink and the standard hourly rate to SB girls when visiting them.

The aim should not be to find girls who don’t drink. The aim should be to find good service girls who don’t pester for drinks or who don’t drink like fish.

Having said that - Above mentioned two ways do work. And can be applied anytime in a bar.

Success rate of sharing beer is less if you are new to the bar or the girl.

Success rate of handing over cash (instead of girls cut on her drinks) is more.

I personally would combine both for maximum output, unless I’m planning to drink like a fish.

 

[Jjacksmith]

sorry to interrupt...y wud u not spend on ladies drinks in a ladies bar. remember it's the norm to do so. in such bars, it's ok for a customer to drink water but a ladies drink in a ladies bar is her drink or rather say her source of income, apart from other tippable pleasures she offers to customers.

I think this is the attitude v most Indians carry to Pattaya n other famous mongering destinations, resulting in all Indians getting banned from the bars there.

so if u want to enjoy in a ladies bar anywhere in the world, have a budget for ladies drinks equal to ur number of drinks + tips for other pleasures.

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Yeah thats true will do that now onwards


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[Uncle Sam]

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If this works no more bars

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She will demand more money later

How do i keep her

Bhai, if that works, make sure no more bars for her too.

She might be a nice person. Don’t wanna hurt your feelings, but stay away from DB girls maya-jaal.
There are many good non-DB girls out there.

I am still sticking to my muse because she pays for her expenses when we have lunch, dinner or movies. This shows she’s isn’t after money.

Today I shared with her my childhood pic, in which several other kids are there. Asked her to guess which one is me. Gave her one day time. If she guesses correctly, I need to do what she asks for.

If she doesn’t, I will ask her for something.

After she agreed for the deal, she asked for pinky promise and said something in Chinese.

I’m expecting myself to win and ask her to stop seeing me. Let’s see how it goes.

I can anytime ignore her and stop talking. But for first time, I wanna play the betrayal game the decent way. It’s fun.

 

[rawsome001]

My take on how to save money while mongering :-

1. Mongering itself and more so DB/OB, etc is all about spending money, if you want to enjoy , you got to spend, right? Why to be anxious when a girl asks for drinks, money etc, its their livelihood and our enjoyment. If you are anxious you will enjoy less and if girls aren't happy you will enjoy less. So let the money and drinks flow !!


2. Contrary view, if I have limited budget then what to do ? In this case your options are :-

- be stingy, shamelessly stingy given that it doesn't make you anxious or feel bad about yourself

- limit the mongering so that you are within your budget without being stingy

- or be lucky to get someone or a place which gets you all you desire, less spend and more enjoyment. Either you have to be lucky here or you will end up exploring more to find such places which ultimately mean that you come out at stingy in each place you visit, and you also end up spending more since you have been exploring many places.

Apologies for this gyan. With my very limited visits to DB and OB I have never been able to say no to anyone asking money and have never felt bad about it, in fact I felt good handing over money to waiters etc . Have a nice day and evening everyone


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[rawsome001]

sorry to interrupt...y wud u not spend on ladies drinks in a ladies bar. remember it's the norm to do so. in such bars, it's ok for a customer to drink water but a ladies drink in a ladies bar is her drink or rather say her source of income, apart from other tippable pleasures she offers to customers.

I think this is the attitude v most Indians carry to Pattaya n other famous mongering destinations, resulting in all Indians getting banned from the bars there.

so if u want to enjoy in a ladies bar anywhere in the world, have a budget for ladies drinks equal to ur number of drinks + tips for other pleasures.

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Very true, we Indians and chinese are like that. Pattaya is particularly been ruined for Indians who want to enjoy with decent spend. And now there are specific Indian joints catering to Indian travelers. It's ironic that people want to have pussy while visiting such places but they also want to save their money, how moronic !!

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[Deleted member 63909]

As discussion is on the signature on the charge slip of credit card, I wish to add here based on experience.

As someone has already said, the credit card transactions in India are authenticated by pin and no customer signature needed on the same.

Incidentally I have a credit card of non Indian bank and whenever I pay by that card, the pin is not asked and invariably the merchant asks for my signature on the charge slip.

Once I disputed a transaction which I did on my domestic credit card in a spa which was actually a cheating / fraud by the merchant. I didn't sign the charge slip though I entered the pin when the merchant stepped the card for much higher than the agreed amount. However, the credit card bank, when complained, came back saying they have escalated the issue and found that I was present at the location during the transaction and hence no dispute was rejected. I went into argument however their stand has been the same. As pin was entered, the transaction can't be disputed as it comes to that.

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Bhai which bank is this?

I have credit card of almost all the banks in India but each require pin authentication.
Only American Express card require to sign slip with no pin number needed but it's valid for only first transaction after that I asked to put pin every time.
Just want to know which bank in India still use the sign method for credit card?

 

[Baboo]

Read some posts on collection of girls

So every bar has different policy

To my knowledge

1 if u get 1000 ka 1000 they deduct 30-50 % from girl

2 if u get 600 - 850 girl gets all u give her

3 what we give directly to girl its upto her whether to show to bar or not

Bhai the usual sharing ratio for OB girls is 60:40 and DB 50:50 usually the owners don't pay more than that. In some OB the orchestra organiser supplies the girls too there the sharing ratio is less. The owners won't leave a single penny in which they have share which u give to girl in bar premises so forget what u give directly to girl only the gifts which u give to girl in bar doesn't have any bar share.

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[Shraavan]

Yes i did the same.. but how to avoid that too.. and just pay for my drink and let her not order


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Rather reduce your mongering frequency. You have to assume at least the following expenses when you go SB mongering. If there is a constraint avoid mongering on those days.
Drinks - 1000 to 1200
Girl - 500 to 1000 (30 to 45 mins)
Tips - 100 to 200 (Coatwala and Waiter)
Watchman - 20 to 50
So min budget has to be 1700 to 2500

 

[Anglo]

What a co incidence...

Destiny plays games the way no one can predict.

Who could have thought that the forum would read the name together...

Manisa( Helen of Troy)

Trojan horse

A Big war (won’t call it great as I didnot like so many things that happened on this forum from both sides.)

So much indebted to Mongerpleasure to make the peace on forum..

And the amazing guys like Tyrion, Shirzophania to help the forum to pull out of the grip of hell by their amazing FRs during the war...

Love u all men. Better respect the word “Man” there is so much in it.

So many guys I wanted to meet...and there is a struggle

Anglo, Bakkacrazy, Tyrionlanister: desperate to meet u. I am an idealist and they say that idealists r romantics. So everyone on this forum is a romantic. Let fate play its course.


Everyone: thank you for making the forum and then keeping the forum alive.

OL: thank you for teaching me patience.

Bbmk: the day of holi. Marathi song. Mayur. That’s my memory of u.

Koolshot: bro u and basu have to be here in NM at the same time. It would b one party to remember. Ur girl at Remesh still talks about u. Met u reluctantly but was thankful that I met u...u were chilled as the best beer.


Mk: I hate u for not being on the forum. Ur absence is killing. Just love u bro..never had an elder bro.....saala...Solent killer. Are you a spy at the service of Mossad?

Basu da: true jumping jack gentleman...my only competition..

Iliketomonger: thank you for mentioning about the forum. He or me was in drunk state. Cabana db. He doesn’t remember. Struggled and found the forum. Will never forget. Even though the monsoon is ending and we were suppose to go on a trip of almost naked girls, rains, random waterfalls (real water) and only us.. still remember the chat outside Nightangale (u me and apparulez)...thank you for mentioning the Lavni scene on the forum. It is my next venture to explore.

Apparulez: bro. Will always be indebted to you. Always. We would always love u the most.

PS: in drunk state: so pardon me for all the emotions and forgetting u.

Forum: u have become the part of life which takes away the stress from the day.

A Big Cheers:

a

Very soon mate. Would be fantastic to meet you, mk and Basu together.

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[Shraavan]

Very true, we Indians and chinese are like that. Pattaya is particularly been ruined for Indians who want to enjoy with decent spend. And now there are specific Indian joints catering to Indian travelers. It's ironic that people want to have pussy while visiting such places but they also want to save their money, how moronic !!

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True that. In the US in a normal bar customers are generally expected to tip 10% of the bill amount at least. I have seen so much resistance and pain among Indians while doing so that it makes you feel really embarrassed. One of my team members used to ask his US project manager for cab fare in cash to go back home from a party. That would be barely 6 dollars. It created a really bad impression. Soon the Americans stopped taking the Indian group for parties with them.

 

[Sunsun]

Why do I go to the ladies bar?

This is the question which making me uncomfortable from few days and this question was not asked by any other person but it's me who asking myself that why I am visiting Dance Bars.

1)Do I go there for sex?
2)Do I go there for company of bar girl?
3)Do I go there because I am addicted for getting attention?

I answer all this 3 question to myself.

1) No I don't go there for sex as I can get sex much cheaper than what I spent in db ob and can get much better girl and service with less effort.

2) No I don't go there for girls company as I am near 38 and I don't need girls company now.I am mature enough to know that I had pass the age of flirting with girls. I have such busy schedule in my daily life so that I hardly get 5-6 hours to sleep so I didn't need company of anyone for spending my leisure time.

3) No I am not attention seeking person.I am a quiet person who loves solitude.

So the question arise again why I go there?
Why I waste my hard earned money?
Why I spend my precious time there?

Still I haven't find the answer.

I made the resolution that until I find answe to this question I will never visit ladies bar.

Manisha aur Yashika to aati jaati rahengi
Kuch life mein Principal bhi hona chahiye...

MP

Absolutely right brother!
I know it's difficult to get the answer of these questions but it is depend on person to person. Do you remember your college days when we break our own rules and if you remember those days now than you will find that you can recall those moments only. So, I must say that do hard work but in between you need some break from your daily routine life.
We all are mature enough here and know our limits.
It is my personal experience brother, if you don't like than leave it but we should live our life in full of happiness. Therefore, in our old days when we remember these days than a smile should come on face!!!

 

[Shraavan]

So my item is going to hometown, i may go to drop her, just masterbuted seeing her on whats app video call

I am yet to sleep with her, i didn't want to sleep with her but I'll n keep her forever with me is what i am deciding at present

If this works no more bars

I'll fuck her at her place she asked me to pay her rent i said I'll stay there if i pay

Ye sab majak me chal ra th

I'll make that happen

Finding the girl worth

She is saying she is 17, she does look younger not more than 21

She isn't after money

Her charges are less maybe new to business

I'm liking her

Maybe she will loot me later

Kya karu

I want to meet her outside she dances well, i can keep her for pubs n pay what i pay her in bar

She will demand more money later

How do i keep her

As a rule of thumb, women who get used to peddling sex for money don’t make for a good wife. Of course, there are exceptions.
But going by sheer probability, I strongly suggest that you expand your social circle beyond bars. Judge women on their ability to gel with your family, social status etc.
Last thing you want is that a few of your relatives or friends turning out to be closet mongers and recognising her and exposing her past. I know a Parsi guy who married a bar dancer. Till date he is the butt of jokes and subject of gossip among his relatives. Of course it all happens behind his back. Also every man in his extended family and friends have made at least one pass at her to check if she is still available.
Hence, CAVEAT EMPTOR

 

[Shraavan]

Why do I go to the ladies bar?

This is the question which making me uncomfortable from few days and this question was not asked by any other person but it's me who asking myself that why I am visiting Dance Bars.

1)Do I go there for sex?
2)Do I go there for company of bar girl?
3)Do I go there because I am addicted for getting attention?

I answer all this 3 question to myself.

1) No I don't go there for sex as I can get sex much cheaper than what I spent in db ob and can get much better girl and service with less effort.

2) No I don't go there for girls company as I am near 38 and I don't need girls company now.I am mature enough to know that I had pass the age of flirting with girls. I have such busy schedule in my daily life so that I hardly get 5-6 hours to sleep so I didn't need company of anyone for spending my leisure time.

3) No I am not attention seeking person.I am a quiet person who loves solitude.

So the question arise again why I go there?
Why I waste my hard earned money?
Why I spend my precious time there?

Still I haven't find the answer.

I made the resolution that until I find answe to this question I will never visit ladies bar.

Manisha aur Yashika to aati jaati rahengi
Kuch life mein Principal bhi hona chahiye...

MP

A month back I had asked myself the same question and have not mongered in SB / DBs since. I have also found a new mongering pursuit which seems more fruitful, interesting and satisfying. Will wait to see if this one too is a wave or if it lasts longer.

 

[ABC_123]

Yes i did the same.. but how to avoid that too.. and just pay for my drink and let her not order


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No cannot avoid drink for lady....lady has to make more bills from customers for bar owner....in order to save money, suggest you can have your drink in normal bar where price are cheaper than db, sb, ob....ek baar nasha chad gaya....go to bar and order drink for lady only, for namesake, you can keep glass in front of you to show that you are also drinking. Once fun is over pay to lady and your bill, come out. Also suggest lady not to drink fast...fast to make more bill, instead make her understand that u will give more tip to her if she try to save money in making bill. Bill increase karne mein na lady ka fayda hai na customer ka.

 

[orient longman]

+918209806387

Number of the dancer u found in magnet is on salary

She will meet u out after regular visits

The girl I liked in Magnet was not Muskaan. BTW I already had Muskaan’s number, but I prefer to meet the bar girls in person to see if we have any chemistry before getting their number.
Bar girls are not like indies. Cold calling them is not a good idea in my opinion.

 

[orient longman]

00.00: work gone bad. Two months worth of hard work gone down the drain. Bad mood.
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Suddenly saw Orient Longman about to leave. Asked him to stay and join for 15 mins as even I was about to leave.
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Stayed till the end.
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I had no idea you were in a bad mood Tuesday night.
You are a very cool and classy guy @AlwaysAshwin . I am sure all the other fellow members who have met you in person will agree.
Looking forward to meeting you again on my next visit to Mumbai in a few months.

 

[krysalis]

Very true, we Indians and chinese are like that. Pattaya is particularly been ruined for Indians who want to enjoy with decent spend. And now there are specific Indian joints catering to Indian travelers. It's ironic that people want to have pussy while visiting such places but they also want to save their money, how moronic !!

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Goa, Rajasthan - many establishments catering to Foreign Tourists don’t want to have a single Indian in their restaurant or hotel. Reason-unreasonable expectations of level of service coupled with excessive fault finding & boorish/loud behavior. It’s the way most of us are-but time to change.