Deleted member 63909
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I remember your post a while back where you mentioned that she had presented proof that a 3rd person had created the misunderstanding between the 2 of you. I was not sure if you believed her.
I am sure you realize that a long term serious relationship with a bar girl is not sustainable. I am assuming that a major part of your social life is outside the bars. For us, bars provide a temporary distraction from our normal, routine lives. Nothing more than that.
I have seen 2 friends and a close relative ruin their lives due to getting married to bar girls. The girls may have been great human beings, but were never accepted in my friends/relative's social circles. All 3 of these guys were alienated by their family and friends for life. In my relative's case, the bar girl held a grudge against him because his family did not accept her. They had a daughter together, but she eventually left him to live with some other guy who had been her regular customer in the past. My relative is not allowed to even meet his daughter at this point. Plus he is still ostracized by his family, so he is truly screwed from all angles.
I am not trying to discourage you; just trying to show you another perspective. In any case, wish you the best. Take care.
Thanks for your concern OL bro.
I know that bar girls doesn't make life or I should say they destroy life but believe me I am not in such serious relationship with any bar girl that I dream to marry her in future.
Its all the illusion which is created by myself and I know its me who is falling in her so called trap.
The family value comes first for every person. Although I visit dbs, drink but that doesn't mean I don't care my family values.
I like her because she just remind me of my Gf whom I left 15 years ago just for my family as my family didn't want me to marry her as she belongs to other religion. From that time I only spend my time in business drinking and mongering and I didn't marry to any other girl till now ( so serious relationship with bar girl is out of my imagination)
I just left my gf becoz I care for my family reputation and at that time also I was not depended on my family as I started earning when I was 17 in my college days.
After that long period I didn't like any girl and If I had liked anyone that was just lust for her but for this girl I hadn't haveany bad intentions for her body.
She just do an activity with her eyes which my Gf used to do that and only that is the thing for which I fall for her.
I know SHE is not my Gf for whom I was looking for.
As in my early posts I also mentioned she is good in looks but I visit to girls which are 2 to 5 times better looker than her.
Still I like to spend time with her.
Don't know if I am right or wrong.
Don't know what will be end result of this situation.
Better i leave this on time which have answers of all questions.
Btw After few dry months will want to have full mongering month of oct to December in NM bars.
MP