During early days of mongering I used to take local aquantainces (I no longer see them as friends) to DB. It was totally on basis of their requests and their free will. most of the times I used to pay for their drinks and they would simply watch dance and flirt with girls at my expense.
Those were hey days of DB in Thane Mulund area and entertainment quotient of item numbers songs was 1000 times higher in DB than it was in real movie theatre. Several high quality dancers dancing in string and notes flying higher and higher.
Later I understood that my buddies were sharing their episodes within the neighborhood. About how they enjoyed on my expense and further they started to spoil my name when I (obviously) stopped taking them to DB. After a while I came to know that some so called well-wishers even tried to inform my elder siblings.
I had to bring a complete halt to my mongering activities to be back in good books of my family.
Eventually I moved out of town for further studies.. slogged hard at work to pay of edu debt and made a decision to never drink at local bars.
I No longer dare to take buddies to such places.
Now I promote teetotalism and yoga in local community ;-)
Boss faced similar situation .. my own friends business as well personal started to whisper that khallas ho gaya DBโs May and I got to know from a good frnd said salle aissay dosto say to dushman kay saath reh.. so I monger alone .. kya kiya kissi ko pata Nahi
Cheers
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