Devil bro,
The point you raised is very emotional and heart touching.
I know few girls and their stories including DB girl and indies.
One very famous indie came to this profession because she was being raped.
One DB girl was about to get married and suddenly found herself in a hotel room with a stranger.
Life is unpredictable... everyone has their own side of story, experience but as rightly said by the Unclesam you can't change destiny.
I tell you my small story which has nothing to do with all these but that is how destiny works:
My grandfather had a dream to see me as doctor ...I grown up with the same dream but destiny has something else for me...I came to the profession about which I never heard of before joining it...though I am quite successful in that.
DB girls/ indies earns money and save it to secure their and their family future in the same way any educated person will do though they are not educated enough.
I know lot of people who never had sex with DB girls or indies though they are regular to DBs.. everyone has their own need and for that proper price need to paid.
A famous quote from Stories and Essays by David Sedaris, Barrel Fever
'If you're looking for sympathy you'll find it between shit and syphilis in the dictionary."
It's always good to talk to as many as people you can... irrespective of their social background, nationality, religion... because it gives you different perspective to think.
I had lot of debate with friends to understand Muslim religion, Christianity, Hindu religion etc. I am big fan of few books which gave me different perspective to think which I never realised before
Mratunjaya
Shyam tum mujhe fir ek Baar mil jaate
Dwarka ka Suryast
Raag Darbari
and few more
I have also read Kamasutra.. not to learn aasan but to understand it from the core
It says any sexual relationship with prostitutes, enemies wife to win the kingdom, Queen who you won in battle is not wrong and is acceptable.
Geeta also defines Karma in beautiful way
"If you are performing any act or not doing anything both are meant Karma..It's you not god, who has to decide what you wish to do."
Every one has their own part to play in life...aaj wo nachti he hum nachate he...kal kise kya pata wo hume nachaye aur hum nache. That's where destiny comes into play.
So better stick to Karma rather than thinking anything else.
As per my own principles the only thing which is wrong and should not be done is to hurt someone's emotions...rest all is fine.
Cheers
NM
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The point you raised is very emotional and heart touching.
I know few girls and their stories including DB girl and indies.
One very famous indie came to this profession because she was being raped.
One DB girl was about to get married and suddenly found herself in a hotel room with a stranger.
Life is unpredictable... everyone has their own side of story, experience but as rightly said by the Unclesam you can't change destiny.
I tell you my small story which has nothing to do with all these but that is how destiny works:
My grandfather had a dream to see me as doctor ...I grown up with the same dream but destiny has something else for me...I came to the profession about which I never heard of before joining it...though I am quite successful in that.
DB girls/ indies earns money and save it to secure their and their family future in the same way any educated person will do though they are not educated enough.
I know lot of people who never had sex with DB girls or indies though they are regular to DBs.. everyone has their own need and for that proper price need to paid.
A famous quote from Stories and Essays by David Sedaris, Barrel Fever
'If you're looking for sympathy you'll find it between shit and syphilis in the dictionary."
It's always good to talk to as many as people you can... irrespective of their social background, nationality, religion... because it gives you different perspective to think.
I had lot of debate with friends to understand Muslim religion, Christianity, Hindu religion etc. I am big fan of few books which gave me different perspective to think which I never realised before
Mratunjaya
Shyam tum mujhe fir ek Baar mil jaate
Dwarka ka Suryast
Raag Darbari
and few more
I have also read Kamasutra.. not to learn aasan but to understand it from the core
It says any sexual relationship with prostitutes, enemies wife to win the kingdom, Queen who you won in battle is not wrong and is acceptable.
Geeta also defines Karma in beautiful way
"If you are performing any act or not doing anything both are meant Karma..It's you not god, who has to decide what you wish to do."
Every one has their own part to play in life...aaj wo nachti he hum nachate he...kal kise kya pata wo hume nachaye aur hum nache. That's where destiny comes into play.
So better stick to Karma rather than thinking anything else.
As per my own principles the only thing which is wrong and should not be done is to hurt someone's emotions...rest all is fine.
Cheers
NM
Fair warning not a post related to escapades of last week.... but rather a diff one.... just my view..
PERSPECTIVE
โhe art of representing three-dimensional objects on a two-dimensional surface so as to give the right impression of their height, width, depth, and position in relation to each otherโ
โa particular attitude towards or way of regarding something; a point of viewโ.
โframe of mind, frame of referenceโ
All this are just few meanings and synonyms of PERSEPECTIVE.
Many things we need to experience to know its exact meaning. We see daily but we donโt understand it fully, we just look at the things from our point of view and try to understand or explain it to others or ourself, but do we really understand from each parties perspective involved in situations..???
Not reallyโฆ..
We canโt or may be atleast I canโt, unless I know for sureโฆโฆ.
What do we miss hereโฆ
Many things.. I guessโฆ..
We all might have seen old people above 65 also work for their day to day wagesโฆ as no one to take care of them or due to bad decisions still have to work or kids left them at their perilโฆ..
We just look at them and can imagine how the life would have been with themโฆ Itโs hard to know for sure unless we know the truth behind those yesteryearsโฆ.
But then where do we have time to look into everyone who comes across us, as we are busy in mending our lifeโs. All we try to do is not end up in any kind of similar positionsโฆ.
Anybody who comes from a background, who has done fairly enough for themselves will have hard time to understand the imbalance of the societiesโฆ
For us tipping someone Rs.50, might not be much but for the person accepting it means a lot. 10 people on average tipping someone like this in a day is like Rs.500 for the day over and above their wages which they receive from the places they work.
We find sometimes girls are needy in places we visit, but are all of them reallyโฆ??
This always hit meโฆ touchwood to my experience I have encountered very few or hardly any in my so many years of mongeringโฆ
Then why many people say girls are greedy ..???? (I have met few forum members and know many by their posts, and I seriously say this none of them have ever said about girls like this, this reference is to many people outside whom I have met, regular mongers, season mongers, onetimers, idiots so called white collars who enjoy going to bars and lust for neighbours wife, or college going girls or any other they come across)..
Have we really considered the situations the girl or that person may be working at such establishments without even knowing them or the truth behind them...(I am not advocating every girl or person working as such, but some whom atleast I have known in more than 12 year of mongering)..
This girls come into trade at fucking early age like 17-18โฆ(prior I knew a 16 year old also, but due to few lawmakers atleast now in recent times I havenโt seen below 17). They lack education (which is the backbone for anyoneโs survival, education doesnโt make you wise but first step in moulding you into a person what we are today), they lack knowledgeโฆ. For them most of the time this is lifeโฆ. Sent to do the deeds by parents, or uncles or husband dumped or delivered at those door steps..
When they enter into such enterprise they get themselves mould into it with timeโฆ they realise from the experienced gals how to lure customers or guests into them and also experience how some take advantages of them by showing them the worldโฆ..
Soon they realises the fantasy land they are into and are always hit hard by the realityโฆ and then the shit of emotions just go out of themโฆ.
Then they realise and are bought to realityโฆ. (Sooner the better)..
Now why do they only look for customers with big pocketsโฆ?? cos they know from the age of 20 (assuming they become the proper DB and OB girl in the trade) they have till 30-32 their prime to attract the maximum customersโฆ
It has been widely known and understood fact that this girls can earn upto 2 lacs to 3 lacs per month depending on what all they do, like dancing, meeting outside, etc.
But does everyone earn it that much and per month??, not really.
The fair amount which I think on an average a girl can earn depending on the deeds.. is like 50,000 to 1 Lac per month (I know a 23 year old never go out with any newbee or unknown customer for entry, only goes with 1, donโt dance and have never earned more then 60,000 per month, I know this cos I helped her once in her issue regarding her home to take loan, but this amount is strictly on an average nothing more as conclusive fact but somewhat I can vouch for it).
Now simply assuming 1 lac per month will only take them to 12 lacs per annum, where they have to support their entire family, if any kid including studies of them and then save for the years after DB and OB. Everyone will agree the girls wonโt like to get into sleeping with many after her glorious years as that will be her prime source of income at that time.
But imagine how much can she save and keep for future as no other source other than this is availableโฆ not being educated to do anything else, they know for sure they are stuck into it foreverโฆ
And then some people says this girls will dance and flirt with anyone they see deep pocketsโฆ. Comeon guys, this girls are there for reason to earn not to love you or be faithful to you...(Some are genuinely true to their feelings and will go to heights to just being with someone, have encountered this tooโฆ), But then again we shouldnโt judge them for what they do..?? (may be deep down they also have feelings)
We can earn till we want to, no retirement age, planning for future through financial managers or personally managing thingsโฆ family to be with and look after us in our old yearsโฆ
Who do most of this people have..?? kids if any and hopefully looking after them.. or else no oneโฆ
I have met few very old mongers alsoโฆ more than 90% of them, goes, just to have some company to talk withโฆ. I can imagine same like this people, even this girls might need someone to talk to or be withโฆ(only time and god knows will they have any)
Things seen from outside is like completely different. One who donโt know it, can just talk about it in plain white and black areasโฆ. But there is so much to it.. that one can know only through Perspective
Its hard to have anyone to know it, unless we know it for sure and that comes with time and experience. Never by reading any article or watching and listening any debate..
Guys this post of me was to know point out any members (seniors or new) or anyone I know from outsideโฆ.. It just came to me from the time I started mongering till now and how my perception changed with time and experiences.
As many knows I donโt go for entry with any DB or OB girls, I just go for dance there(either to see or do), neither I have been with indies from long timeโฆ nowadaz life is in diff trance and enjoying it to the fullest till it changes the track againโฆ
Guys none of this is to offend anyone, just wrote wat came to mindโฆ
Happy mongeringโฆ..
Devil..
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