Dating an Asian Massage Girl

[cheerleadingexpert,*]

I don't even know how to reply to this response. I was overwhelmed with so much emotion.

We over generalize everything in life and we are doing so here. The majority of the relationships end on sour notes. No big deal happens in civilian life too.

BUT, How many times has a civilian try and con you out of money and your good name. (sign legal documents)

So there are known issues with this and alot of the members can prove it.

So guess what, you can stand there and take her shit, like a good little boy or you can slap her in the face with a grapefruit like our long past dead original Trident Knight, Lord Cagney would do.

 

[fhefvuxqireikmedu]

it must be this.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hwabyeong

 

[Michael Walker]

Korean girls temper....

I haven't dated very many Korean girls, one actually.
I have a close Korean male friend and watched his family over the years.

I have found that Korean people tend to be more outwardly emotional than other Asians I have known. The Korean girl I dated was fiery and spirited but equally sweet and adorable. I have found that being able to stay cool and not get caught up in the emotions of the situation has always lead to good outcome and left the girl impressed and respectful.

I understand sometimes that girls make up all sorts of silly test to see if you will behave badly.

As far as AMP girl relationships ending badly, most of my civilian relationships have had the same fate so I guess we are all human. Spotting a healthy compatible person is no easy feat. Sometimes it takes fixing yourself first.

The facts are simple, you are dating someone who has landed in this AMP universe for a host of reasons and the residual effects are as expected and as pointed out. It is difficult to know sometimes if the love is genuine and for that alone I would say a date is one thing a relationship is another. A date is trivial, you have some fun together, take her home, maybe have a couple of fun times in the sack and move on. A relationship is serious dating, that takes a real special guy. I can tell you it is not always about money. People can gravitate to you because they crave something healthy that you represent to them, believe it all not most of these girls would die for a guy with steady, hands, head, and heart. Playboys loose the cache quick.

Any money I have sunk into an MP relationship was done with all awareness of no potential return. I saw it as a gift to someone who needed it and who I cared about. If she disappeared the next day she disappeared with a little lighter load. Knowing that I never had a single regret, I was well aware of the hazard. It was an experience that made me wiser. If she ever came back for anything I would be there for her in a heart beat, not always with dollars sometimes with an ear, a shoulder, or a warm embrace. You would be amazed at the healing power of a love like that. No regrets ever.

 

[an old Priestess]

I've noticed a few people stating that the Korean girls can go berserk, as anyone done a James Cagney on them, I for one would not allow one to raise their voice in the presence of the Lord of the Trident Knights. I must set an example, if any of our dear ladies of the night steps out of character than a face full of grapefruit will be in their future. (If you don't understand my references, you my friend are too young)

 

[hmm.]

In college I dated a girl who I later found out to be a stripper. She had an incredible body and was 5 years my senior. I was much thinner, cuter and had that preppy Ivy league look so she wanted to train me I guess. It was fun and I only had good intentions. She finally dumped when she realized I was only into school and I wouldn't drink nor smoke pot with her. Oh well I do miss that body but once I found it she was dancing at LAX since she was 16 and might have mothered a couple of kids I decided it was for the best. No promises and I moved on.

Just dont make any promises you know you wont keep and if she keeps pushing for a commitment in words or dollars just soft deny and let her breakup with you so you are not the bad guy and hopefully avoid any volcanic explosions. By all means do not let her move in with you. Now if you move into her place then YOU ARE THE LOST DOG and you need her more than she needs you.

 

[jay h]

I guess it's ultimately, "to each his own." In virtually every case that I've been involved with an AMP girl, I was not "looking for a relationship." In fact, with 2 of them, I did not know at the beginning that they were AMP girls -- met under different circumstances. I think that the general feeling (more or less) from everyone here who has been involved with one is: (1) proceed with caution; (2) enjoy whatever you can and (3) it's likely to end on a sour note

 

[Jim Boney]

Hey guys we fixed the glitch on tjsmile. Sorry we simply missed a check box the first time.

 

[Deena Lockers]

I guess the saying should be 'the customer is king, and the boyfriend is a welcome mat'... you guys that have been to hell and back with one of these girls know best and are trying to give the rest of us good advice, but the saying 'do as I say, and not as I do' didn't work either when our dads tried to use that..

 

[Re Dempt]

As a matter of fact, it was her boyfriend who gave me her number to test her. She failed miserably and stained my sheets in the process. On top of this, I was able to find out hat she was seeing a host of men. Bitch to the end...

 

[wuttup]

LMAO.... You so crazy!

Do you know if she has a boyfriend?

 

[Arminius]

cantinflas, in case you failed to realize, i agree with your general message: to be careful and to watch your own back. that many if not most of these relationship end with one or both parties distressed. (the same can be said about civilian relationships)

all i said was that there are a few exceptions to the rule, which you seem to agree with. and that i like to remember the good times along with the bad.

however, i need to respond to a few things since you called me out for an 'emotional, drippy post.'



never said anything about saving them or opening my bank accounts to them. simply about having a good relationship with them outside of their job. just like with any civilian.



this applies to both women and men in this hobby. sounds to me like some men in the hobby are just as jaded as the women they deal with. is there a correlation between the amount of exposure and the amount of negativity you develop?



the same exact thing can be said about the mongers, and how they deal with amp women outside the AMP.

its all about the people you get your advice/guidance from. if they get advice from a biased, jaded person, they will most likely adopt those characteristics themselves.

trusting the wrong people and receiving bad advice has ruined many decent people. its a sad reality. but it happens in every racial, social, economic class, not just with working girls.



i understand that for many, when they get dicked over, they forget about the good and let the bad stand out heavily. this negativity is very apparent and it often leads to biased views and over-generalizations. (which is what i was responding to)

i never meant to ignore or minimize yours/ others' warnings to other mongers. they are valid. and should be taken seriously.

i was just saying, don't forget about the good things that also happened along the way. even when parting ways after a while (for whatever reason), some people can do it without harboring negative feelings.



although i truly believe my mission in life is NOT fruitless, thanks for wishing me good luck. good luck to you as well.



imho, there was little to no 'emotional dripping' in my post... but to each there own...

also, if its relevant to the thread, every viewpoint should be posted. whether people enjoy reading them or not, and whether other people disagree with them or not.

not sure who said this but: you can understand some people all the time, and understand everyone sometimes. but you can not understand everyone all the time.

i have said what i had to say and i am going to end with agreeing to disagree on some of the ways we view this topic.

 

[Dllama]

Thats some funny sh*t.

 

[Joe Friday]

NOTHING has been debated more than the economic "recovery" package! Remember, global warming has been caused by all the hot air coming out of Congress!

 

[?Aloha?]

This reminds me of a pratical joke the maintenance men used to pull in the restrooms at my old job. They would epoxy glue quarters in the bottom of a toilet bowl and fill the bowl with blue dye. Then they would count the people coming out with 'blue' hands. I was surprised to see so many cheap muthafukkas in BB suits storming out pissed with a blue hand or with their hands in their pockets, fucking had me pissing in my pants. No one would really complain because they didn't want the world to know they got 'took' for fiddy cents or 4 bits. Anyway, if I see any guys with purple tongues, I'll be sure to ask to inquire about their provider ...after I stop laughing & pissing my pants.

 

[myant]

One of the Original reasons for creating the Trident Knights, Brotherhood and Wingmen...in Pudgey's case a "A-10 Warthog Aircraft" he travels instyle.

 

[Nicole Melichar]

Thanks for sharing. And posting this BEFORE lunch..

 

[????????? is back]

Fuck that, my royal arse demands a custom tricked up Kohler with an extra large heated seat, built in bidet & automatic 'flushometer'

 

[Hetyu]

Laughing my ass off .....again. . . .thanks to you guys.

I definitely need more comedy and less KMP girl drama in my life.

Thanks for the chuckle.

 

[??????H]

Takes another Trident Knight to come up with a sick analogy..
bless your over weight soul, I see you sitting on the Throne someday....(American Standard Kind, sucker)

 

[rposzich]

I think this has been debated more than the economic recovery package. FWIW I think dating a provider is like drinking antifreeze.... it tastes sweet as you drink it but it will eventually make you sick & kill you. Let's not allow the game to play us. Keep it fun & safe.