Do you know what these girls think of you?

[Misc Tech Advice]

That depends on how good looking you are...I've gone out with a few MP's and most of them are normal....some girls are gold diggers I'm sure but most I've gone out with seem pretty generous but I guess maybe I've been lucky.

 

[Fluffness!.?]

Just wondering if you've ever reflected on this.

Aside from being a source of money for them, what do you think they think of guys who go to massage parlours?

I make a point of asking. There's no point in asking what they think of me. They have no reason to answer honestly (unless she's stupid).

But, girls are often less guarded when talking about other girls in the business and less guarded in talking about you.

Now of course there's no way to verify their honesty here - it's just that they are less guarded when talking in general rather than in particular.

Findings:

1) A fairly high percentage are open to girl girl sex. But just like in real life they are reluctant to tell girls they work with that they'd like to get it on with them, even when knowing that girl gets it on with other girls.

2) Racism - I've heard it in its subtle forms. I've heard it in its blatant forms. I guess I shouldn't be surprised. But some girls just don't like visible minorities (strange choice of profession then, eh?) (In case anyone wants to know, I'm not a member of a visible minority.)

3) Respect for clients: Generally, the girls don't like you. They find some of you pathetic. They generally like talking about the most pathetic of the lot.

Not too surprising - you are a kinky lot. You go there and you don't like talking much about what you want, and when you do talk it's pretty kinky shit.

Nothing really phases me anymore, but if you really like getting peed on you might think to consult a shrink. And my hat's off to the guy who likes to have his scrotum pinched.

Apparently most of you aren't too good looking either. (Let me remind you I gather this all to get some reflection as to what they think of me. I'm not sparing myself the rod here (no pun intended.)

4) money - a few of you have a lot of it. Most of you are spending money on them you shouldn't be - and they have this pretty well figured out.

5) Dating - most wouldn't date you in a hundred million years if it weren't a financial transaction. They don't want the kind of guy who.......

Surprisingly or not, most girls have very bad taste in men - I'm guessing due to the inherent unconcious lack of self esteem associated with the profession. They seem to go for the superficial stuff, and when you hear about the guys they are dating or living with - well..... blech.

6) bad sessions - often it's deliberate. They don't want you back. In most cases they feel they don't need your money - they are busy enough.

7) Privacy - they discuss you with some or all of the other girls. In detail. Ownership has a rather laissez-faire attitude toward this. The talk goes beyond the single parlour and into the community of girls - many know girls who work at other parlours. (And they move back and forth between the main ones regularly.)

8) Size and looks matter. At least in terms of service sometimes. (sigh). Making them laugh is a good substitute.

I could go on......

 

[Cardaba]

well said, BB...best not to know what they really think...because for that half-hour (or longer) that you're in there with them, it's your dime and your fantasy; what they really think during that period of time isn't relevant to your fantasy.

Of course, it would be nice to think that all MPAs think only good of their clients but reality would probably say otherwise.

Also, Frank put it nicely..too difficult to argue morality in this type of a situation...both parties are using each other to get what they want so no right or wrong in my opinion...

 

[blueplaty15]

Sounds like you've got a pretty good handle on what the MPAs are thinking.

One of the points I might argue is the girl-girl interest. PArt of it may be true but part of it may be just to feed into our fantasy that at any moment a lingerie tickle fight could break out at any moment.

I'd also add that a lot of guys are cheating (if you consider this cheating..... but that's another thread and yes I think it's cheating).

But pretty much everything else is bang on......

Guys
-pathetic
-spend too much
-kinky
-not attractive

Girls
-bad choice in BFs..... always seems the girls in the biz have the worst boyfriends, none of my female friends have stories that come even close

Interesting theory on bad sessions......
-maybe the girl doesn't want to see you again.

But then there are some nice experiences too. For my birthday I was surprised with champagne and cake by an MPA. And some seem to take a genuine interest in what you are saying because they remember months later.

But what does that kinda stuff mean? I think it's just a matter of being considered a valued client.

 

[Aneoki]

Here here. I almost think that if you are guillable to be played, perhaps you deserve it.
Recognize any session for what it is. A business transaction, hopefully a fun one.

 

[Mr.Klaus]

Just had to join the dedicated posts party...

 

[PRELUDE]

Being a cynic i can believe most of this list is probably true(not so sure about most mpa's having lesbian fantasies about their workmates), however it doesnt make me one bit less horny and surely wont keep me from enjoying this hobby to its fullest potential.
I guess the other important question is not whether these beliefs are true but whether it makes a difference to the hobbyist and their pursuits.

 

[teezera]

I don't think an MPA's job is so much different than many others. Do you think every hair stylist likes the fat stinky house wife that comes in for her appointment? Woman, in many industries, RIP on each other. I don't care what they think about me once I am gone. They don't know anything about me other than I have some money I want to give them for some fun. I could care less about the car salesperson after I have bought a new car. They have their money and I have a new car...it is all good.

Bottom line is what others have said. It is a business. They have something to sell that I want to buy. I think some guys have this emotional thing they need to fullfill, I don't. Give me a good time with a hot girl and I move on. ANYONE that gets involved with an MPA or SP is simply ignorant. I don't want them and they don't want me. Who cares. It's time to book my next MPA appointment..........

 

[Ranger4402]

In a way it's a lot like other jobs. People complain about clients, patients, students, or whoever that they have to deal with at work. But what makes certain MPAs so good is that they are able to approach things in a professional manner and understand that they are catering to the business of fantasies.

AT's post made me think of something...... I'd say some guys think of MPAs with pretty low regards.

It sounds like he's just thinking outloud.

 

[Jtvviewer]

Interesting…

I had an interesting conversation with a dancer. She was intelligent and articulate and we were getting along great. Then she asked me if I’d like a dance. When I politely declined, she said, “That’s OK. I consider men who go for dances complete idiots,”

 

[bubblegum101]

1. To Angelina - my experiences have been great. Nothing unfortunate about them. Some girls I like. Some I don't. Big deal. As I've said, I want to know what the person I'm with is thinking.

My claims, by and large, don't surprise me. Given the nature of the industry and the reasons girls are in it, it's exactly what I'd expect. Please also understand that I'm not saying all girls are racist, or all girls are lesbians. I am well aware not all girls are the same or feel the same.

2. To those who say they don't care, various responses:

a) you might consider buying yourself an inflatable doll instead.

b) I don't believe (all of) you. To say you don't care means that if you knew the girl who was groping you thought you were a pathetic wimp wouldn't bother you. Knowing a girl is laughing behind your back doesn't bother you?

Well - all I can say is, I don't believe you.

c) If you've ever thought about it (and clearly some of you haven't) sex is a certain percentage physical and a certain percentage psychological.

Hopefully, if you've reached adulthood, you've come to the point where a smoking hot 10 chick can say something so stupid that you just lose interest, while an okay 7 chick will know how to mess with you in just the right way to make it the best experience of your life.

If you understand that, then you can't be serious about not wanting to know what the girl is thinking.

Another example: Is there a difference for you between fucking a 10 and fucking a 10 and making her cum? If you answer "no" - well, you've achieved a level of detachedness that is clinically interesting. If you are answering "yes" then you know why it is good to have insight into the girl you are with.

d) I think it's funny that some of you have the need to point out it is a financial transaction. Duh.

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Anyway, I'll leave it at that for now - thanks for playing.

 

[Rachel]

Frankcastle,

I know the guys are referring to the service in the room; I just mean to state that it's a real rubdown, and a real tug (As opposed to what we used to do with magazines when we were teenagers). If a guy starts fantasing that the MPA is in love with him, finds him irresistable, whoa, then there's a problem. Not that you couldn't meet a nice girl working in a parlour, of course you could, but it's a long shot, at best. Most of the girls have to "turn off" to a certain extent, just to be able to function in the work environment all day long.

 

[mindtrap]

what would an MPA think when a tall, fit, cute 21 year old student visits them i.e. me?

 

[Namibnat]

They think I am an old fat ugly pervert who has too much money for his own good.

And they have no hesitation doing things they don't like to do just to get some of that money.

And it all is a turn on to me.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ours is a human interaction. Just as in any human interaction: sometimes we click sometimes we don't.

Sometimes kindness is genuine - sometimes it's forced.

Sometimes we care - sometimes we don't.

This can be applied both ways.

This is what makes a human interaction human.

 

[PastorTom]

Needy for asking this question. Nah they probably think of you as easy money. Probably much easier than a sweaty, hairy, obese dude.

 

[Gabriella M]

I think you'll find that your revelations are not exactly new to most of us on this board (we've heard the exact same things from the spa management, and in some instances, the ladies themselves).

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edited by a much calmer, less agitated rabbit who tries very hard to convince himself that certain ladies do not detest him - despite his knowledge to the contrary...

 

[butterstixies]

Yeah I agree with what you are saying. It is a hard point for me to put into words. Perhaps I was also refering to attitude and personality away from the hobby. I have known some MPA's in my time, and the way they acted in the spa was totally different then the way they were outside the spa. However, many of the SP's I have known and dated have been pretty consistent with their behavior, attitude, and personality even when away from the hobby. Perhaps this is what I was trying to get at by saying that SP's are more genuine. There is something about having sex with someone that brings you closer then just a hand job. I don't know, maybe I am not explaining myself clear enough. I hope you can kind of get the point of what I am trying to say. Not argueing by any means, just a different take on it. What do you think?

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey chief,

How come you never come on MSN anymore? I miss our bull sessions.

 

[Lily<33]

HAHA, well they'd be wrong then... I'm a student, I have no money yet.