Do you know what these girls think of you?

[stacie]

Reminds me of a conversation I had with a cell phone salesperson, basically she asked me what my job was because she couldn't tell. I asked her what clues she'd look for and she replied clothes, type of cell phone and type of plan.

STudents she said usually go with pay as you go. Guess they probably look at students as bad tippers.

 

[BettaFan]

Sounds like you have a perspective that I don't have which is that I very rarely see MPAs/SPs outside of the workplace. But I think I understand what you're trying to say.

However, sex doesn't necessarily lead to more genuine feelings...... ask the married guys. But what I can say is that I'm honest to myself when I whack off to sears catalogues.

 

[Elle B]

Very well put!

 

[ROCK ON]

Not a bad posting and some really good responses. Just one point I would like to add.



Pathetic? Hmm, let's consider the source. Is the car owner how goes to the dealership to get their oil changed rather than do it themselves pathetic? Is the homeowner who a plumber come in to fix a clog rather than fix it themselve pathetic? (the fluid references are intentional) Those gals who use the term pathetic should look in the mirror. By their own definition of the word, it could be used on them. In the interest of educating you ladies, look up this word, "immature".

Let's just respect each other for the perfectly fun supply and demand economy we share.

 

[Morna000]

I don't think the act of going is pathetic. I think it's in reference to behaviour that one might see at a MP from clients...... such as constantly asking them out, complaining about their life, weird notions of what turns women on, pushing for mileage, haggling, trying to impress them with money/cars, freaky requests etc etc....... oh wait a minute maybe that's just my sessions.

 

[Linkin Park is my Heart]

Somebody watches too much Dr.Phil.



x^

 

[Saber]

don't take offense. It's pretty strange to take offense to something you say agree with. And in case you haven't noticed many are disagreeing with me (and apparently you).

As for my motivations? Pretty straightforward. Elements of things I've said have come up recently - racism, for instance - and I presented a bigger picture.

What do you think my motivations would be?

 

[mark l]

I will say that BJs, FK and FS these are more intimate acts. But does that translate to a greater intimacy? I can't say.

But maybe you (ph9) are part of the equation as well.

Maybe the more genuine feelings you have experienced with SPs are.....
a) a product of more intimate acts
b) a result of the type of person that SPs versus MPAs
c) a result of how you choose to interpret her actions
d) based on your actions bringing out certain actions in her
e) fake and she's a good actor (this one occurred to me last..... not put there as an insult....... reread option c) as that's the flipside)

Guess what I'm saying is that I don't think it's as simple to say SPs are more likely to be genuine could be a lot of other reasons other than her occupation/title.

 

[Concorde]

Good enough...we'll end it there then. Sears catalogues is everything but honest for me...LOL I once dated a model that did Sears catalogue work. Very scary...

 

[santa sox]

Great post TQM!

As I've suggested before; I have a couple of friends from back in highschool who first tried the stripper thing and progressed to being rub 'n tuggers and you're pretty bang-on here reitterating what I've heard from them and their industry friends.

I've asked the question; isn't there any one guy/client who sees you that you like or look forward to coming back? Best I've ever heard is; once in a while yes, but after they come back a few times no.

Based on my expereince hearing these working girls chat; if you really care what they think of you don't see the same girl more than once every other month or so. While I could write pages of the stories I've heard, best to summarize in suggesting it's just best to have a rotation if you go to MP's often.

kkarn/

 

[Bahhhh]

Damn it I forgot that Sears airbrushes/photoshops their pics!!!!! I thought that was the last honest relationship left..... a man, his hand and some pics.

As for intimate HJs..... you just haven't met the right girl. There are times when the girl knows somethings just gone off that's more intense than just your average SOG. OR the post SOG cuddle.

Oh yeah take a look I elaborated on what you had to say posted at the same time as you did.

 

[oooo]

I try my best to break the ice and have respectable mind numbing conversation(s) with the girl. Most are up for it, so long as it isn't too personal.

The issue of race does come up, and often by chance and more often by the girl's own discretion. I've heard many comments about many different races from all kinds of girls of various ethnicities including the white girls. Since they are not directing their comments to me personally, I simply take it as their contribution to the conversation.

I've even had a girl INSIST (and by this, I mean, she stopped the session in order to "discuss" it with me), but INSISTED that I was either "white" or was "mixed with white". When I carefully asked her why that was the case and why she was so insistent she just said that "You can't be __________"

 

[SKINQU3EN]

They are wondering what is wrong with you that at your age you have to resort to MPA's.

When I was your age, I was at University and having regular sex with gorgeous 19 and 20 year old University students who wanted to try anal for the first time. There was no need for MPAs.

Come to think of it, I am wondering why you have to go to MPA's if you are all you say you are......

 

[zanevorhis]

I prefer the real thing ... not the real doll.

Besides the variety on those doesn't make up for the variety of SPs.

BTW ... that would also be a financial transaction.



Everyone is different so you are always going to have different schools of thought. Some of us are already aware of the fact that they talk behind our backs, if we let it get to us we would never get it up or repeat for that matter !!!

Every MPA/SP is different, therefore to generalize that all of them are talking behind your back is also wrong and would bring you down to "their" level.

Prefering not to care makes it more easier and I don't have to be lost in thought. Also if I cared everytime then why would I keep on going besides the sex aspect.



Sex is physical ... loving and caring is psychological.

If every SP/MPA out there thought along those same lines there would be fewer of them in the business, why should clients think any different.



I think its funny that you don't seem to get it yet.

Visiting an MPA/SP is a financial transaction.

Working on a relationship is an emotional commitment ... friends, family and loved ones are really what matters in life, they are priceless.


If you let everything anyone said get to you then you are defeating yourself, you are your own worst enemy. If you can rise above that then that makes you the stronger individual in the long run.

Someone is always going to talk behind your back, get used to it ... afterall it is a fact of life.

Sticks and Stones ... thats all it is ... Sticks and Stones !!!

VBB

 

[Pompal 09.]

No offense taken here.

You hit it right on the button !!!

I don't care what they think about me and quite frankly I don't really think about them ... why should I unless I write the review. The SP/MPA is probably thinking about her life or the next customer and has forgot about me with a snap of her fingers and being myself I am not wasting my time thinking what she thought about me as a person as I am not that critical about something so insignificant.

How can you make an assessment of someone if you don't even know who they are and your facts are limited.

They lead their lives and I lead mine, all that matters is the exchange of $$$ for services.

Its business nothing personal.

VBB

 

[Leon B]

Maybe the MPAs are faking interest while secretly loathing YOU...

But ME, they love. Or at least they fake it so well I'm convinced.

Which is what I require in order to cum.

Which is what I require to be happy.

 

[Bryan D]

I would probably be a bad tipper.... I'd pay the $40/30 minute room fee, and give her $10-20 for her services.

 

[athomasmueller]

sounds like you're just a snob who thinks you're better than all of us...

what's the matter? didn't get hugged enough when you were a child?

 

[Pompal 09.]

LOL, an excellent point. I wasn't approaching from that angle. I will swap my appointment with Dr. Quack and make one with Dr. Joy.

 

[renee]

First, for the other guys - I didn't say most girls are lesbians.

Now to you Alexa -

1. Why do I care about what they think of me? Good question. I think it goes to the heart of what I want.

Frankly, I can give myself a hand job. When I see a masseuse (or whatever else I see) obviously I want something more.

Now it probably isn't necessary for me to define what more I want, but the important thing is that knowledge is control. I'm able to get more out of the business relationship if I know how the girl thinks. Given I have some degree of success at this (in spite of all my shortcomings!), I think there is something of value to what I say.

This knowledge is my competitive advantage.

2. Am I self-conscious? Not in the sense you mean. I am self-aware. And I'm self-aware in a way few are (bragging, sure). And I like being self-aware.

3. I've complained once to management about a girl. Given the number of times I've visited an establishment, that means I officially complain very, very rarely.

4. I'm not generalizing in the sense of saying "all think this way". I am generalizing in the sense of saying "many think this way". It's based on my sampling.

5. I don't know what they are always thinking. As I said, when a girl is talking about others you can quickly see they become less guarded. And I said, that is no guarantee.

6. You have a bias, then, against cynical men. All fine and well. I'm not cynical. I'm fact based. Doesn't really matter.

7. My one very bad experience was with a favourite "allstar" girl. I don't name names because, honestly, I have no interest in getting revenge or seeing her fired or hurting her. I'm not interested in playing games. (At least those kind of games).

As for other all stars, generally, my favourites are a small subset of girls who are "all stars". I've learned to take reviews here with a grain of salt.