Do you know what these girls think of you?

[~~Birdy~~]

Great, here he goes again the mr know it all psychopath. You sound like youre the one too caught up in this industry. Maybe go back to your wife/husband and kids or family and spend some time there instead of being a loser.

 

[Waverly H]

See those are two different things if the difference in treatment is a result of how you carry yourself that's not racism.

Racism is when you have a bias as a result of someone's race.

I do however agree that one who conducts themselves courteously will usually have fun at MPs.

 

[neggandbattlemaster]

Hahahahah exactly. THey think they have class? the joke's on them.

 

[Wrestling God]

Men discriminate on who they see, they can get away with this. If a few women discriminate, they can't easily hide this and it becomes obvious.
I think most are very accepting, let's celebrate those who are and reward them with business. I'm not sure there is more we can do.

 

[KROQFAN]

I have yet to encounter a MP who has brought up race of another customer. How does the conversation between you and the MP end up with racist statements?
Anyone with half a brain would know that sex is mentally as well as physically motivated. Why would you insult someone who can still have an orgasm while not being mentally attracted to their partner? Why is that a lack of development rather than progress? A lot of adult movie actors as well as SP's and MP's would be guilty of this. I'm sure that at least 1 MP was not attracted to you or your questions but still managed to beat you off. It's much easier to bring others down than to bring yourself up. Hopefully one day you will realise that before it's too late.

x^

 

[thejanith]

I think it's fair that most MPAs treat you accordingly to how you carry yourself.

A small percentage can be bitchy.

And an even smaller percentage are racist.

From my personal experiences I rarely ever hear racist remarks by MPAs or bitchy MPAs. Not because there's anything special about me but I think it's just not that prevalent (or at least obvious) in the spas that I frequent.

 

[kitncaboodle]

Hmmmm maybe another way of thinking about this is using ourselves as examples.

In your line of work how important is it that you like all your customers, clients or co-workers? So long as you treat them well and do your best they won't mind and neither will your boss.

 

[Bryan Greener]

Even if an mpa has a stereotype of you based on race, you'd be amazed at how easy it is to change their minds/attitude simply by conducting yourself as a gentleman.

There's many more ways to piss off upset/offest your session with your mpa .......but that's another thread.

 

[Vishak]

For me a lot of girls bring up my ethnicity. Usually it's curiosity and a couple of generalizations...... but nothing that I would deem offensive usually it's said in a complementary way (e.g. I like X about Y guys because of Z). True complements or not who knows just talking about what often happens.

 

[tlk2ul8r]

As for the who's better or worse and all those moral discussions. It just sounds like attempts to make yourself fell better/superior. Makes one wonder why they feel they need to do that.

 

[haeunberry]

That is a valid point Frank, and you are right I should provide a little more clarification. I of course am talking about the higher end escorts oppose to the Red Zone $150 ones. Although I thought that was obvious, because I know you don't see the cheap budget MPA's, just like how I never see the budget SP's. In any case, I do think your point is valid in saying that there are just too many varieties of providers to make my point. However, I of course am refering to the ones that I have come in contact with to base my opinion. Yet by saying the variety to wide in providers really makes this hold thread pointless then because both sides of the coin are definitely covered. Some providers like their clients, some don't. It is as simple as that.

 

[Margarete]

Unfortunately I don't have enough experience with SPs I guess honeygirls and sweetbabyescorts is the highest I've seen.

But if I were to compare them to top spa MPAs. I found them pretty similar in the way they carry themselves and treat me. I can't pin point any difference. In both cases you find some that go for a porno act while others go for more of a girl next door vibe.

In some ways I think MPAs feel a bit more real in the sense that I know that most women don't actually come through FS or greek yet with these SPs I seem to be more effective than the Rabbit (the sex toy not Fuzzy Thumper).

I find there's less pressure on MPAs to fake the orgasm stuff.

On the personal side I've felt more genuine feelings from MPAs but I think genuine feelings regardless of with a SP or MPA come from comfort and familiarity developed from more than one visit. I think the first meeting will always be the most on guard session.

So it's not the type of sex worker but the context, frequency and most importantly the first impression that determines how genuine they will be with you. If I push a MPA for mileage chances are she won't drop the wall. Had I been nice to her then maybe she will be a bit more honest.

But don't get me wrong. This won't happen with all MPAs or SPs nor has it happened that often with me.

 

[Lapara99]

BTW PH9,

You are right that my comments about generalizations kinda throws this whole thread out. That's not my purpose. It's just that I disagreed with the idea that certain types of sex work had certain levels of being genuine attached to them.

 

[blackwater]

Dude,

Are you down listening to my new Chili Peppers cd yet? What the fuck!

 

[dado]

Frankcastle is showing the most sense here. Who likes all their clients anyways? Not me, but I hope that the ones that I find tiresome are in no way aware of that fact. The goal at work is to be helpful to clients, no matter what the job one does. I think the best MPAs undertand that, and try to be professional. And, contrary to what many post on this board, it's not about fantasy- that's what you do in private, at home. It's about the reality of being entertained, intimately and in private, by a beautiful, young lady. Like the man said, "What's not to love in that?"

 

[Masta Pimp]

Who's the Zonger?

 

[xxprincessxx]

AA,

I think the fantasy guys are referring to is the act/service presented within the room.