Do you know what these girls think of you?

[Dick Tator]

Why comment on the racist part?

Like it or not most peope are racist to one degree or another.

Right or wrong is a completely different issue.

Do you prefer to get massages from certain types of girls? I have my preferences so why can't the MPA.

At the end of the day the MPA is a person who's subject to the same short comings that anyone else might have.

 

[Casey Jane]

Let them think what they want. It doesn't really matter. It's just a physical experience anyway. A simple fantasy.

Besides, in truth they shouldn't be the ones thinking bad of guys who go to ...

A normal guy wouldn't want truly have a girlfriend that works in a...

Yeah they'd date them, but only to fuck them. Until they get bored of them.

I think it's a fair trade-off. They get our money, we get their bodies. And if they didn't make their bodies such a difficult to get commodity, then there wouldn't be a need for these places. I wonder why there are no MP's full of men for women? Because instinctually men want and need to be with more women, while women instinctually want that one guy.

And in truth dating a girl (especially a high maintenance one) is almost akin to going to an MP in terms of costs and expenses. Except at an MP service is guaranteed and variety abounds. What's not to love?

I think the joke is on them, not on us. Next time they laugh, they should look in the mirror and turn that smile upside down. They're selling their bodies. I would never in a million years do that.

 

[Pompal 09.]

If you don't click with her and she seems withdrawn, mechanical or even sneers at you, it's too easy to see this as a hint of racism if you're looking for that.
More likely she just isn't into having sex with anyone at that moment, but we really can't make a judgement based on a short time with her.

 

[alaziz]

You don't know anything about sex.

Seriously.

I'm not saying that to be disrespectful. You can carry on the rest of your life thinking that the physical sex act is entirely a physical action, with no psychological component, but its purely delusional.

Carry on with your delusion, and never wonder why you prefer this girl to that, while another prefers that to this. Never wonder why if she seems to be into you it feels different when than when you see her looking at the clock. Never wonder why a girl who you've just met can drive you insane with lust with just the certain phrasing of a word, while another just doesn't do the trick. Never consider why it is that you like certain phsyical attributes and not others.

Go on believing it's all phsyical.

The more there are of you the better I do.

 

[Slim D]

Here is my two cents. After asking a favourite MPA of mine. Her insight was very forth coming. She agreed a few of the ladies do not like to see clients of East Asian and African descent/background. A lot of racial slurs and poor services would be intentionally given to them and/or the clients would be traded off to someone else.
She also concurred that some of the less refined clients are called 'losers' behind their backs and notes would be traded about their small body parts in the change rooms.
However, these experiences are made by a very few of ladies at popular establishments and because of this they would be eventually fired.
For the most part, the interactions between a high end MPA and her regular clients are very genuine. Naturally, a rapport develops. This special lady told me, her regular clients are terrific and there is a difference between regular and walk in clientele.

 

[Coffee Junkie]

Very well said indeed !

 

[Masrya Tool El 3omr <3]

Is there really a moral difference between paying to have your body touched or being paid to touch a body?

I guess it's inevitable in this type of dicussion that you're going to get the two extreme opinions.

Personally it sounds more like a rationalization than anything else. A normal way of dealing with situations like this is to put the other person down. The MPA puts the customer down and the customer puts the MPA down.

I prefer to try not to think about what MPAs think of me because why should it matter. I'm going to the MPA to get pleasured so long as how she thinks of me doesn't interfere for my primary reason for being there than there's no problem.

How I feel about the MPA should not really concern her because she is there for financial reasons and so long as that's being met what goes on in my head really doesn't matter either.

It's not only until the feelings of either person comes out when problems can arise.

As for would I do it for the money? Maybe...... compare what I have after taxes, mortgage and bills. Then I compare it to what some of the top MPAs have? Two different ballparks.

It's certainly not easy work and that would be the reason why I probably would fail at it but I can't deny that the money has got to be tempting...... $1000 a day tax free vs $1000 a week after taxes. Okay that's exaggerating as MPAs don't work every day etc etc etc these are just approximate numbers to illustrate a point.

 

[Gloria F La Flakka]

This is a great point. I couldn't care less. I used to, but now I know that the sex "trade" is diminshing and enhancing equally for both parties, and whatever a girl thinks of me matters little. Simply put, they're not exactly in a position to judge.

At the end of the day, it's just another consumer service, like McDonald's or snow shoveling.

 

[Pompal 09.]

This was excellent....I really enjoyed this thread....I must admit that the interaction between MPA and client is/was important to me and it contributed to my willingness to return on a regular basis to the MPA over many months or years....If there is anything of real value between you and the MPA, fate will find a way of getting you together....

 

[jimgreg]

you are of course right. I never said I brought so many women to orgasm. My point is that its just so much a better experience when you get that totally hot girl cumming. I could watch a girl masturbate for hours......

 

[cassandra007]

Maybe another way of looking at it is that for most MPAs they won't have much to talk about unless you give them something to talk about. Act rude of course they'll talk about it. Be nice to them and they'll probably say something good about you.

As for the race issue, it's unfortunate that it still persists. Maybe MPs should start having multicultural days to celebrate the ethnicities of MPAs and their clients.

 

[angelboy]

I was thinking about this thread a bit more.

I think some MPAs probably do belittle their clients, some do not.

I would hope that most of them let the chips fall where they may and sometimes they click with a guy and sometimes they don't. I try to show MPAs respect, I certainly don't judge them lest I judge myself.

Human beings tend to bitch a lot about everything. It's just par for the course.

The one thing I find MPAs bitch to me about are other MPAs they tend to work with as opposed to customers.

 

[Henry Le]

It's odd that racism exists when the Mpa's themselves are just as ethnically diverse as their clients.

 

[Dave J]

Agreed, fre if she takes my digits and places them in her pussy and there is an obvious physical reaction - with DATY as well - then she is enjoying BOTH the sexual release and the money...just my two cents...

 

[Candice]

I dunno Charley I don't think it's a good idea to hobby with such romantic notions as that.

I think it's better to just think practically and considerately.

 

[stormer_xxi]

No, it makes sense that some are because they are as diverse as their clients.
We are all products of our environment, positive or negative.

Stick to a place you find yourself comfortable, just like everyone else does.

 

[nikhil]

I think it depends on the spa some spas are catty while others are not.

It's interesting how often the defense from hobbiests seems to be "well they are in no position to judge."

This statement kinda bothers me because it suggests a heirarchy.

I think clients and MPAs are pretty much equal. You can't have one without the other. Both sides can try and fool themselves into thinking one is better than the other.

Any girl who is able to last in this business and do well in it is like a person in any other job..... they've found some aspect of it that they enjoy that outweighs it's negatives. If the job was all bad then of course it would stand to reason that they would switch careers. How hard would it be to hold it together working as a MPA if you hated your job and the people you work for/with.

Now also keep in mind that when you overhear the girls bitching about something that's because it's something that has touched a nerve. When telling someone about your day you usually tell them about the extremes either good or bad. But what you talk about is not necessarily representative of your overall feeling towards your work and clients.

People always bitch about X, Y and Z about their jobs but it doesn't mean they don't like it. I'm sure people with high paying or glamourous jobs complain as well but that's not to say they don't like what they do.

 

[Classy Granny]

I don't know what they think of me, and I really don't care.

I do know what they think of my money.

 

[StephenWeinstein]

Why is this odd they are people after all.

 

[Pompal 09.]

1. I'm aware racism goes in many directions. I've nowhere limited it to whites against x.

2. Personally, it has killed several sessions for me when the girl makes some comment about another race.

I've been told,

a) "If he's black, I make him wait longer and I make sure if he comes back it isn't to me."

b) "Indian men are all disgusting."

c) "I insist the Asian guys tip me."

I don't have the ability to put aside the comment and pretend I still have a hot cutey in front of me. Call me crazy.

For me - if a girl starts telling me about her kids; or if she tells me she was abused when younger; or makes some kind of hateful comment - I lose all interest. For those of you who think sex isn't at least part psychological - and don't have this problem - I envy your lack of development.