I find this thread funny in a tongue in cheek kind of way. I don't know if there's any truth to the back story, but the constant reminder tickles my fancy.
There's a way to hobby reasonably safely. There's usually a shared responsibility if two people don't do that. If you believe what you read, and Lillypad is really a female that asked Krayjee not to use a condom because he said he was clean, well, she should have known better.
I don't believe everything I read, though.