Dating an Asian Massage Girl

[investhorjr]

Other than the Prostitute girls....
the K-girls from China which they speaks chinese and korean, they already know what are they going to do ,where they going to work and they know where they going to stay. They keep in contact with each other online c. they know which is the well known SPA in NYC , In the old time, only the married one came, but now the single ,unmarried young girls about 23 started to come over, work for few yrs and go back to china, but they always come back to NYC. because this is were the $$$ are.

 

[Merie]

There is a simple reason for this. Chinese girls did not come into this country with the intention of becoming a prostitute. They were looking for work as waitress or seamstress and what not. Then when their luck failed, they had to resort to prostitution to make a leaving or to pay back the "snakeheads" who smuggle them here. They hid more because they didn't want anyone from CHina to hear they have become prostitutes in america.

The KMP girls that most of us are familiar with were already working as prostitutes back in Korea. They enter the country with the full intention of selling their bodies to make enough US greenbacks so they can retire once they return to Korea.

 

[lebronjames#1]

Please... dont get involved with the AMP girls...Turst Me...
I know.. you will tell youself you will not fall for it, but you will.

 

[Biyonca]

That's a broad stroke of the brush. Always remember AGENDA AGENDA AGENDA. The moment her AGENDA has been tripped up, or has been altered off course that is the time to scuttle the ship. What I have found is that Koreans never mention any thing about their employment reasoning,Other than the Love affair with money. The Chinese I have met on the other hand have some difficulty and try to explain a story of why they are doing this, and show some minute or actual guilt about it.

THEY ARE ALL CASH HUNGRY. That is their motive and objective, no faulting there. I know some gals personally on here who take in even now in these down times over 10Gs a week. Even a 45+ Milf from Jillin China can hustle 3-5 K a week at some Hot spots.

I'm not talking $500 an hour call girls here either. 100-200 Tips per day. I also have not fallen in to the trap of spending my dough on them. I will pick up the tab for meals and such, but they usually pay for everything. I have found most will pay for both of us.

 

[uhesluyjigsiqaevg]

Damaged or not, you are always dealing with a human being/ person.

I do agree, this is not a great place to find the love of your life for all of the reasons mentioned on this thread but is love something you decide or does it happen to you? Or does it happen to you and you use your wisdom to talk yourself out of it?

 

[Pook]

Quite true. The ones I have known hate doing this job, but where else can someone in their situation make that kind of money? Certainly not working in a restaurant or nail salon. It's all about survival, and these gals become very adept at playing that game

 

[MORRISON ALDRICH]

yup. the drama is really not worth what you get in return...which is all to often not that much anyway.

but be careful if you do fall for one...it is hard to get unstuck. no matter the mounting time/emotion/financial sink.

one comment i found funny was about how we like these women because of the submissive/geisha like qualities they have. ahem...i dont know what places you are going...but i *never* see anything qualifying as submissive. inside or outside. to me the good ones comes across as assertive/smart with a sly sense of humor. the others are bitchy/pushy/hard-nosed or some combination thereof.

one thing i will say: be careful of thinking you 'know' the kgirl. note this goes for regular kgirls, too. you may know her...but it is just the side she has carefully chosen to show you. if she want you to think she is the perfect gf material, she'll be all shy, sexy, cute, thoughtful...really just perfect from the man's perspective.

but heaven forbid you disappoint her...you can suddenly see a lot of different sides to her...some of which i'm sure you will wish you hadn't. girls in general...kgirls in particular...are extremely calculating. this is really not good or bad...but if she is bad...then the term someone else used here certainly applies "they are most devious". watch out.

if a kgirl like you, you most likely will be subjected to a series of little tests. if you are serious about one, i suggest you put her through a test of your own. one is to disappoint her...so you get to know her other sides, sooner rather than later...

 

[summer.rain]

Wow this thread is really interesting to read. While I don't have the courage
to date any AMP girls outside their business, I do bump into these K-AMP
girls when I go to bars in K-town. It is the most awkward feeling in the
world. We would eye one another, but should we say Hi? I would bump into
at least one "veteran" girl every weekend.

 

[Sean Boy]

I think this did start out as a bit of locker room bragging. But that is kind of silly under the circumstances. What if the girl's criterion was " I think this is the chump just stupid enough to blow all his money on me and get me a green card." The tendency seems to be to attribute it to one's studliness. Who knows what these girls are thinking? I definitely don't--I don't get the mind of the KMP girl- their thinking is opaque to me. Some of them have been around way too long for it to have been for only a quick buck and plenty long enough for a punter to have pulled them off the market. I haven't met a KMP girl that seemed to be looking for a white knight, not that I have offered. Places like Bangkok- different story. Seems in NYC, AMP girls are more inclined to be looking for boyfriends and/or as a means of getting out of the biz. Different vibe. But have to agree with Cantinflas- in typing this paragraph, I have already spent too much time thinking about it.

 

[Egyptian Gazelle]

My mistake. Dating does not require being in love and a relationship doesn't either. I forgot to read the thread heading carefully.

I was a little taken a back at first by what sounded like locker room bragging.
To each his own. I know how it is with guys just chatting it up. It is all in good fun but I just wanted to send up a reminder that a person is more than a massage and a lay.

Being mindful of that, kind, respectful, and being a man in and out of the bedroom by showing strength and integrity will blow a girl's mind. You won't believe the amazing sex that comes out of that.

Peace to my mongers!
TB

 

[s d]

That's pretty awesome, I do have to admit. But I have a story that runs relatively close. I met a stripper at a club and took her into the VIP room. Within minutes she was naked and sucking me off, and I thought this kind of behavior was off limits (Giuliani was cracking down hard, so it was very interesting). While I paid for the VIP lounge, I tried to give her a tip and she refused it, asking me to come see her during the day at the sister club cross town.
A week later I took her up on it, and again wound up in the VIP room (which was much smaller and had more light). This time, she got naked and had me finger her to orgasm 2 or 3 times while another girl and her 'guest' watched nearby. Again, no tip.
She wanted me to take her to a swingers club. I had her email but I have to admit I wimped out. My second child had just been born and I got the guilts something bad. Never saw her again, but man she was smoking hot.

Several months later, the guilts had worn off and I wandered into the club again and ran into the girl who had been watching us in the VIP room. She was a tight little Brazilian. She recognized me and asked me to go to the VIP room. Once more I head in, and this girl gets naked, jamming my fingers in her ass and pussy while she sucks me off. Tip refused.

I wish I could say that I was able to recreate these events since then (these were 10-11 years ago), but sadly I have not been able to.

I admit, these were not "free" in the traditional sense since I paid about $250 for the VIP lounge....but given the cultural environment of the times, I think I did pretty darn well.

 

[nawrvxxh]

I've had plenty of relationships that lasted quite a while without ever encountering what I'd call "love". Of course, it depends on what you define "love" as. I loved the companionship in some cases, I loved the sex in others. But love the person? A strong LIKE, but no, not love.

Relationships are very weird in that you can usually create them from a variety of bases, but inevitably if the 2 people don't have a common agenda of some kind the relationship will not last.

I think these all sound like relationships. Perhaps not the healthiest of relationships, but certainly relationships.

 

[no_censorship_8524]

Hey if you had something going on outside with a working girls fine. Just dont chase money. They are working girls. Some provide a great consistent service while others are not really good in service nor appearance. To each his own. I have seen guys go after the supra-petitte Kgirl with A cups. You can have them. To each his own. I prefer the natural B+ kgirl with intelligence and great massage and bed skills. (in shape for the various bed positions)

 

[teezera]

Interesting stories about getting freebies from these chicks; yes it happens, but not too often. I met one Chinese gal in an AMP on her first day, and we somehow wound up getting naked together. Though she didn't speak too much English, I still managed to get her phone #. She quit the job after 1 week, and went to work at a nail salon. I hooked up with her a number of times at a Flushing hotel over the next few months. After our first hotel encounter, I offered her money, and she actually declined ( a first for me). Guess she didn't want to feel like she was a ho. I recently met another one at an AMP, who I 've seen on the outside twice, both times refused payment. Says she just likes the sex. Something tells me she must have another agenda, but so far I haven't seen it

In any case, these were the only two exceptions to the rule that I've encountered. All the others gladly accepted my cash, including an ATF who I had a years "relationship" with before she went back to China

 

[Landlord]

being in love with someone is not a prerequisite for what constitutes a relationship. Love is great, but you have to get to that point first. no? love doesn't come first. and this thread is about dating massage girls not being in commited relations.

 

[Leeiiissssaaaaa]

I wouldn't call any of the stories I have read so far tales about relationships.
Not once was the word love used. Interesting....

 

[Nevermind]

nope, me neither but tell me if you can top this...

in a NYC strip club, brazilian dancer and me sharing some drinks and small talk. she takes my hand, pulls the index finger and puts it in her ass. Then she puts my middle finger in, then my ring finger and pushes them in as far as they could go.

I was there her for a half hour as we continued to drink and talk and as I fingered her ass.

A tall British dancer slips in next to me (me being in the middle) and she looks at whats going on. She asks me to buy her a drink and she started stroking my johnson.

There were no other "fees" - no nothing. We didn't didn't do anything afterwards. Just in the place. It was insane. It was a real low key joint in the west 40's but it was soon bought out and replaced by a mafia run place where even looking at a woman demaded a tip.

After washing up, I walked out of there and immdiately called one of my friends. It was legend.

 

[yyyyyy]

I have dated both a chinese and a korean provider outside of the parlors and have noticed some distinct differences in the way they act and react to different things. So just from my experience.

The korean girl love spending money on name brand designer shit. It was like she couldn't help it. she lived with 3 other girls and all of them had bags and shoes exploding from every space they could put it. the sexual relationship was excellent and with out any real problems but the materialistic obsessive world she was in drove me nuts. It ended when she almost killed her roommate for taking a pair of boots with out asking and getting them dirty. Nevermind she was doing the same thing to their stuff. I waited for the cops to come and that was all she wrote.

The chinese women was the mamasan of the joint. She warmed up to me pretty quickly. It started as her giving me extras at really cheap prices and would say the standard amp shit " only for you" You besta" blah blah blah but over time she wouldn't want the money and would want to hang out. Everything was great with her. She was awesome. but every so often you could see that she was fighting making me pay for shit she did. Almost like she was a robot that was trying to fight her programming. That part sucked donkey balls. She would cook clean give me back rubs when I got in from work, blowjobs when that didn't work all around gfe. Over time though SHE was the one that got jealous thinking that somehow I had time to go to AMP's and get one rubbed out or I had other girlfriends, when I worked 16-18 hr days in manhattan (where I live) and then commute to long island where she lived. Really long story but I miss her and wish she didn't move to san fran.

I have hung out with both groups of women, korean and chinese, To hang out in groups I prefer Koreans, if it is more quiet and one on one I prefer Chinese girls.

In the end long term relationships is never something that you would want with any of these girls just to much baggage on both sides but short term is great. I failed when I tried to extend it.

Just my thoughts

 

[Spurloneree]

Boning one of these chicks for free is no big deal. The thing to figure out is what she's looking for. Some just want to have sex with you and leave it at that. Others want...something and it will be filled with drama.

One of my real scenarios: 2.5 years ago, I met this K-girl for an outcall appt. from a well known, well established R&T place. Actually to my slight disappointment, we just fucked (I really needed the massage). This continues for about 4-5 times and then she disappears. These were all paying sessions, though very, very GFE all around.

We reconnect and now she has me calling her place to schedule appointments that SHE pays for. So I'm calling, getting it for free, and she's paying the outcall house fee. This leads to me meeting 2 of her friends. One just bangs me (for free) for the hell of it -- (I have very sexy eyes according to her) and the other takes me out for dinner, gave me a bottle of cologne and then comes home with me and sucks and fucks me with me finishing twice in her mouth and swallowing. The only money out of my pocket that night was $40 for her to take a cab back to Flushing because it was late and she had to get home to her kid.

It's been a year since I boned K-girl 1; K-girl 2 was June '08 and K-girl 3 was a couple of days before this past New Year's. I'm suppose to see her tomorrow night.

K-girl 1 has cancer and is undergoing treatments;
K-girl 2 is working in another city, calls occasionally;
K-girl 3 is working across the river and still seems interested.

I could go on because I've got a couple more (former) AMP K-girls that I'm involved with at the moment and then a couple of Chinese gals (one civilian). It gets very, very complicated and I haven't shared any of the real drama that's gone down.

Oye....

 

[meanolmaw]

What he said....