Dating an Asian Massage Girl

[Ally S]

Fellas, this is one time you all must obey the wisdom of Canti. No truer words have been spoken. Spend your money at the MP and have fun. Outside of the MP, the cost and benefit do not equate for these girls. It is a hobby so keep it that way.

 

[Funkay Onion]

this is all because the fellas take this shit to seriously.
there is no such thing as a freebie
there is no such thing as a damsel in distress
there will be headaches
there will be pain
I preach to my Trident Knights everyday, have a good time and don't get caught up in their bullshit.
In essence we can share our thoughts before sharing our lives with these ladies.
They're are not bad people, but they're trying to get the most out of this crazy world of ours.

 

[Careless]

Naive,

Sounds like a story begging to be told!!!! But I get the gist.

 

[vkehduitibripzece]

Funny time for this thread to come alive.
Can't say how many, who, or how long....but can say I have experience.
I'd give up half of all I have to go back in time and never have dated (or even met) KMP ladies.
Well damn, looks like I already have (given it up).
If you have other options, strongly consider them. And if you think KMP ladies are your "best" option, find a good shrink!...........(and forward his number to me). There are ALWAYS other options.
Hopefully I can find the strength to get out before I lose the rest of my money & mind.

 

[Rose78]

I agree that they are quite different outside the AMP milieu. Part of the reason for this is that they're largely acting when they play the "geisha" role; they know that a lot of us mongers get a kick out of that, so they play it up, hoping it will get them a bigger tip. The reality is that most of them hate the job, hate having to wear a fake smile all day long, and just want to get as far away from the AMP as possible when they're off. Their outside personalities run the gamut, from lively, assertive, to totally dependent, and even morose. Anyone who wants to see them on the outside for a "freebie" better be prepared to make a committment , emotionally and financially. These girls aren't stupid, and know how to size up a situation to their advantage

 

[-[$aVaGe]-]

I have limited experience with K-girls outside the MP-- but enormous experience with their MP SE Asian sisters. My own take is that once you finally get beyond all the bullshit and really get to know the person- they finally let you in-in one case it took about 6 years, if it ever really happened- you will find that their MP persona and their actual persona are sometimes quite different. Part of the "un-pc" attraction of these girls is the geisha type attitude, most of them just ain't like that (I prefer spirited women rather than submissive ones anyway) and on top of it can be really lazy and vapid (am generalizing greatly based on my own experience). What is the attraction of seeing them on the outside? Catching a freebie? It probably just isn't worth it.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Can anyone confirm that Sky is still working at Nirvana?

 

[Gracie]

Same here Nabb , You are correct with your follow up. I forgot to mention that the younger working girls love to toss the bucks around to their lil Nam ja sexer buddies. Most girls will bang the crap out of Mi-Gook Saram but bee line back to their comfort zone in the end.

I know of ones who married Americans, later divorcing after recieving citizenship, and hooked back up with a Korean or Chinese guy. These women are not to be handled lightly, they can detonate in to a fireball at any time. Just enjoy them for what they provide, and leave the marrying BS to their own men who know how to deal with their BS.

 

[Inge Wernig]

hey JM, good to c u.

fwiw, from my experience it is not just the ajumas who own amps that go to these and drop a grand a night. it is the working girls themselves. seems the kgirls go a lot. the china girls i know are invited but can't bear to part with the $. except when they are back in china, where its a relative bargain

 

[susi]

until you have lived it you have no idea how deep this goes. i would advise most to not try finding out.

that said some of the sweetest moments in my memory was with a korean girl. and as well some of the worst - no, different girls. what i think is most disturbing is they both seemed so good upfront; you just don't know if you're sleeping with a real vile one until its over, and you survey the damage (or lack thereof) in retrospect. if you walk away intact...she was a good one who really liked you. prior to that, it could all still be an act, even if you have been together years.

 

[xylem]

I approve this thread (=

 

[HP Resource]

Absolutely! It most certainly does, and in virtually every walk of life too!

 

[Karena]

The Ajumas who own amps go there to see some young korean ass, and play. They have buku bucks stashed to toss around. Sort of the Hangul "chip and dales" .

Some take the guys out after, but it's mostly fantasy and gets their panties moist, and fill the Koreans host pockets with dough. Boy toys. Look at Madonna, she now has Arod as her boy toy.She was a boy toy long ago. Money changes everything doesn't it..

 

[Rosie<3]

The Koreans have them too. My friend told me there were some out in flushing where the KMP women frequented.

 

[dsk]

cherry was a hottie, is she still in the ny scene? I saw her once and the second time I met her she was in the bathroom brushing her teeth while I was waiting for Maya. I didn't remember seeing her until she told me her name, I was like, so do you like to kiss?

 

[hrchede]

I've had several that have commented on my wedding ring, asked about my wife and how young I look, given me the "awe, tsk, tsk, naughty boy" and then proceeded to fuck the living daylights out of me asian cowgirl style. Sugar at VIP and Cherry at Rainbow especially. I personally think it was a competition thing. Had I not actually been married, I would have considered asking Cherry out. She was flawless.

 

[HeeUnu]

Fair enough, good luck and I wish you well.

 

[JOHNA M]

I recently watched on cable a documentary on Japanese host bar "pretty boy" guys and their clients (mostly providers). I never had heard of such a thing. Similar to an American "ladies only" club but without the overt sexuality of a strip club. Heavy emphasis on champagne chugging and getting the women to spend obscene amounts of $. I felt sadness for all involved and disliked how the men preyed off of the addictive behavior of the women.

 

[King_Play_UL]

That being said, this girl, if I had not met her at an AMP is a dream. In different circumstances, it may be different.[/QUOTE]


Reading my own post, it is best you don't get involved with an AMP girl. Why deal with the extra drama?

 

[Micah Hughes]

Let's see, what do I get out of that? Meeting this girl has put me in semi-retirement in the scene (more to do with the lack of interesting talent). I'll pass.

I'm not lost in the fact that she may still be working (that's why I put it in quotes) though I do believe her. I'm not really interested in finding out, this isn't a sugar daddy type deal. There is no dependencies established either way.

When you meet an AMP girl, it will always be hard to get involved with her on a long term basis unless you can set boundaries, on both sides. The way you met her will make it hard.

That being said, this girl, if I had not met her at an AMP is a dream. In different circumstances, it may be different.