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[hangul99]

Iver never dated an Asian mp ... they just txt me when they want to $ee me. Learn the hard way that giving them my number was a huge mistake because they txt me at random days and hours... had to hide my cellphone sometimes. I went out with one of my regulars two times only. Nothing spectacular though. Never have gone beyond with them ... they always tell me they don't go out with customers. ..

Asian girls will text you when it is slow or when you have not seen them in while. Some can get very possessive and bat shit crazy. I've had some (ones with good English) actually call me on occasion and I had to tell then to stick to texts. Trust me most don't think twice to contact you once they have your contact info. One day I was at home waiting for my car to be serviced at the dealer. One of my regulars texted me wanting to see me. I explained I was without a car. She told me she would come and pick me up and then give me a ride to the dealer to pick up my car. She was totally pissed when I would not let her come get me. Lucky she did not have my address.

Find a texting app that has a private inbox. It will save you from a lot of explaining. Also, remember to turn off notifications.

 

[hangul99]

Never ever underestimate the power of an extremely pissed off woman. Enough said.

Wise words.

 

[krayjee]

Asian girls will text you when it is slow or when you have not seen them in while.
One of my regulars texted me wanting to see me. I explained I was without a car. She told me she would come and pick me up and then give me a ride to the dealer to pick up my car.

That seems like a norm for Asian girls at some Asian spas. I have seen Eva, Cici and Michelle picking up their customers and driving them back home after the session. They will put extra efforts in to make a few extra bucks. I have also seen SP agency Eden Dream picking up a customer at a hotel to their in call location.

 

[Ursus]

That seems like a norm for Asian girls at some Asian spas. I have seen Eva, Cici and Michelle picking up their customers and driving them back home after the session. They will put extra efforts in to make a few extra bucks. I have also seen SP agency Eden Dream picking up a customer at a hotel to their in call location.

What kind of client has enough resources to book a sex-worker, but not enough resources to get to the location on his own? That's fucking hilarious. I would be too embarassed to even admit to a sex-worker that I can't get to the location on my own and 'need a ride'.

I should open a service and charge guys to drive them to and from appts. Like a driver, but for the male customers, not the female sex-workers, LOL.

I would call my service STI - Sex-service Transporation Incorporated

 

[roguejourney]

So, basically, you text her and she ignores you and if she does respond, her response is very short. And when you told her you were unhappy with her behaviour, she has decided to ignore you further. And so you think that if you are EVEN NICER to her in the future, she will somehow come around and the two of you will have a valuable friendship.

No. Won't happen.

She is typical cunt. Maybe she is nicer than the average MPA is to you, but she is still nothing better than a cunt.

If she wants something from you, she will contact you. If she can get something she wants from another guy, she will contact that guy. You are one of many guys she has on the go. And btw, no one is too busy. Too busy is just an excuse to avoid contact with you. When I ran my own business for 6 years, I was never too busy to contact anyone. No one is too busy, even the President of the United States. And she does socialize - all people do - just she chooses to socialize with other people and not you.

Don't feel bad. Women do this to EVERY GUY in their lives, eventually. Look at NFL football players. Most of the women in their lives eventually claim to be unhappy, divorce these men and then take all there property. These guys are good-looking, rich , popular, but the women eventually leave and take all the players' assets. Women are takers, plain and simple. Move on and forget about her. No women is worth it and especially not a sex-worker. To cry over the lost relationship with a sex-worker is like getting upset that another driver on the road crashed into the car in front of you and not your car. Don't feel sorrow, feel lucky.

Research the life and personality of Moemoe Yamaguchi. Then compare her with a sex-worker. Then ask yourself: 'Is a sex-worker really the best woman I can get? Can I not get any woman who is better?' You set your standards VERY LOW when you put a sex-worker on a pedestal.

When she didnt bother to reply to my texts or picked and chose what to reply, that bothered me and still does as she still does that. on my end i was the opposite and responded promptly to virtually all texts. i dont expect them to be answered right away, just in a reasonable amount of time. that alone was almost enough to call it quits. it was always on the borderline. there was a time i got fed up and deleted all our chat history, pics, and videos. a few times i had deleted her phone # so i cant call or text her but when she reached out to me i saved it and thus the cycle repeated itself.

I'm fully aware of the game being played and two can play at that. the thing is that she *totally* has the upper hand whether she realizes it or not! she has almost all the things i physically want from a girl. i also like our interaction while in session. i really dont need to look else where. her loss? just another client, though a regular. im fairly easily replaced. im just another john. her on the other hand isn't easily replaceable. i tried and am actually working on it. from the 8 girls ive seen lately in the search of a replacement i cant get better from my pov. im not deliberately putting her on a pedestal. if there's another better to replace her i would do it.

Im pretty f**ked at this point as i really don't wanna go cold turkey yet, i.e. not see her ever again, there's no substitute in sight. almost everytime i see her in session im totally and sometimes beyond satisfied but its almost psychological. its almost as if she scored another point, raked in a good chunk of cash, while im down $220 or $440 depending if it's 1hr or 2hr continuously. thats a blow to the ego and the wallet.

Im also fully aware that im pretty low on her list and agree with you that no matter how busy a person is, if that person is important they will put the time and effort to get back. im totally playing this game too. not as well as she.

Im not going to be nicer to try to win her or expect her to be my gf. im just being myself and seeing if she wants to be fwb, mutually beneficial. dunno how to bring it up as of yet though she really likes my massages when we go reverse. almost all girls I've seen do. at one point she agreed to a mutual massage session outside.

There's plenty of good advice from vets here which i appreciate your thoughts on the matter. perhaps i will have my last session (or not even have a last session) in the near future and call it quits on her and bite the fcuk'n bullet. just mulling it over at this point. i really do wanna move on.

 

[roguejourney]

Come on guys it will be a learning experience for us...

In the spirit of learning from each other, i have no where near the experience of some vets around here.

My situation was i asked my fav mp if she would like to go out sometime, to a dinner or something? and then roller coaster ride began. it was great at the beginning then just went down hill.

 

[Leo44]

Hmm..220-440... that's a lot man.
You can turn things to your favor. Do not txt her nor call her for 6-8 months. Ignore her ... she is going to miss u ...hmm .. miss your $$.

 

[Leo44]

I bet you she will desperately call u or txt in 6 months asking for your whereabouts. At this point you will have the upper hand...

 

[roguejourney]

Hmm..220-440... that's a lot man.
You can turn things to your favor. Do not txt her nor call her for 6-8 months. Ignore her ... she is going to miss u ...hmm .. miss your $$.

Yah man the hobby bill isnt cheap. when see her i almost always go for 1hr. Sometimes if i havent seen her for a long time i go for 2hrs. im trying to dial it down. ive been exploring around with other mpas but when u have session + fs its $150 + $100 its back to $250 for 40mins. with her i get same for $220 but for an hr. and its with fav mpa.

 

[roguejourney]

I bet you she will desperately call u or txt in 6 months asking for your whereabouts. At this point you will have the upper hand...

We text each other once in a while seeing how each other's doing. so i dont think it'll take 6 mo before she'll begin to wonder and contact me. i think by 1 mo she'll have tried to contact me.

I know what you mean though, thanks! i may try to look like i have the appearance of the upper hand but its a huge bluff i know deep down she does lol.

Its also hard not seeing your fav mpa for 6 mos.

 

[krayjee]

We text each other once in a while seeing how each other's doing. so i dont think it'll take 6 mo before she'll begin to wonder and contact me. i think by 1 mo she'll have tried to contact me.

I know what you mean though, thanks! i may try to look like i have the appearance of the upper hand but its a huge bluff i know deep down she does lol.

Its also hard not seeing your fav mpa for 6 mos.

rj,. Pls remember this is a game of CHASE. The more you chase her the harder she will play to get her. She knows she had you in her pocket so she is in full control now and trying to play with you and manipulate you. DO NOT answer her text for a few hrs every time she texts you. That will make her think she is losing control over you and she will try to win you back. Never ever make them think you are an easy target for them and they can get you back at any time they want. If she doesn't contact you for a long time, all you do is sent her a little symbol of kiss or whatever without any words just to tease her and remind her your existence. Remember, every regular guy is a source of regular income to them and they will try their best to keep you as one . In the mean time, go out and look for a replacement. I know it's hard to find the right one but eventually you will find one.

 

[hangul99]

If you want to take a break. Force her hand. See another girl at the same spa. Girls talk. She will know.

This could either work in your favour, or end your relationship if she has a jealousy fit. Lol!

Dude, one way or another. You need to move on. This is not a healthy relationship for you to be in.

We text each other once in a while seeing how each other's doing. so i dont think it'll take 6 mo before she'll begin to wonder and contact me. i think by 1 mo she'll have tried to contact me.

I know what you mean though, thanks! i may try to look like i have the appearance of the upper hand but its a huge bluff i know deep down she does lol.

Its also hard not seeing your fav mpa for 6 mos.

 

[krayjee]

If you want to take a break. Force her hand. See another girl at the same spa. Girls talk. She will know.

This could either work in your favour, or end your relationship if she has a jealousy fit. Lol!

Dude, one way or another. You need to move on. This is not a healthy relationship for you to be in.

Good idea but risky. Do that on her day off, not on same shift. I did that with Perly and Emma once at Pacific spa. Perly yell at her in Chinese while we were in mid session and Emma held back on her service. I went to see Emma again on different spa and she was fine. After that Perly found out and tried to win me back. It worked out well for me..but they don't talk to each other any more..lol

 

[krayjee]

Yah man the hobby bill isnt cheap. when see her i almost always go for 1hr. Sometimes if i havent seen her for a long time i go for 2hrs. im trying to dial it down. ive been exploring around with other mpas but when u have session + fs its $150 + $100 its back to $250 for 40mins. with her i get same for $220 but for an hr. and its with fav mpa.

If you want the best value for your money, find a girl at semi legit spas in East Beaver creek area. It's only 50- 60 bucks for one hr and the tip of $40-50 will give you a decent mileage and a good time and sometimes more if you find the right girl, it's well worth it. You can always go home very very happy for around 100 bucks all in . I normally take 90 min for 150 bucks. If you buy 10 session coupons, much cheaper. If you have insurance coverage, semi legits are the ones to go. You can claim back 80% to 100% depending on your insurance co. I used up all my insurance coverage at JR and E&M on last week so I have to watch my expenses from now on..lol.

 

[Ursus]

If you want to take a break. Force her hand. See another girl at the same spa. Girls talk. She will know.

This could either work in your favour, or end your relationship if she has a jealousy fit. Lol!

Dude, one way or another. You need to move on. This is not a healthy relationship for you to be in.

Hangul99 is absolutely correct. Best to book another girl from the same spa. If she asks you about it or gets mad, just tell her the truth - you were getting the vibe from her that she wanted space, so you gave her space and decided to see some other girls.

And you must understand that girls don't miss guys. They want guys to desire them so that they (the girl) feels good about herself. When you go see another girl in the same spa, she will only get upset in that she will start to doubt herself and feel bad about her self-doubt. A woman is incapable of loving or being attached to anyone besides her children. A woman doesn't have in within her DNA to care about a man. Don't kid yourself into thinking that she will ever care about you.

 

[Victorvic]

Good idea but risky. Do that on her day off, not on same shift. I did that with Perly and Emma once at Pacific spa. Perly yell at her in Chinese while we were in mid session and Emma held back on her service. I went to see Emma again on different spa and she was fine. After that Perly found out and tried to win me back. It worked out well for me..but they don't talk to each other any more..lol

So take out is still available.... nice

 

[krayjee]

So take out is still available.... nice

?????

 

[roguejourney]

rj,. Pls remember this is a game of CHASE. The more you chase her the harder she will play to get her. She knows she had you in her pocket so she is in full control now and trying to play with you and manipulate you. DO NOT answer her text for a few hrs every time she texts you. That will make her think she is losing control over you and she will try to win you back. Never ever make them think you are an easy target for them and they can get you back at any time they want. If she doesn't contact you for a long time, all you do is sent her a little symbol of kiss or whatever without any words just to tease her and remind her your existence. Remember, every regular guy is a source of regular income to them and they will try their best to keep you as one . In the mean time, go out and look for a replacement. I know it's hard to find the right one but eventually you will find one.

She knows she has a lot of power as I've disclosed to her that she's my fav mpa. we used to text a lot but not so much now. the few hr trick wont work since i had tried taking a day to respond and she does the same right back to me or doesnt respond at all. when we dont talk for a while that kissy face has no effect on her. i am on my journey to find a decent one while we both play this game.

 

[roguejourney]

If you want to take a break. Force her hand. See another girl at the same spa. Girls talk. She will know.

This could either work in your favour, or end your relationship if she has a jealousy fit. Lol!

Dude, one way or another. You need to move on. This is not a healthy relationship for you to be in.

I once went to see her but she didnt reply so i went to see another mpa and she was totally fine and genuinely happy that i was still getting it. nothing seems to phase her. lol

 

[roguejourney]

Hangul99 is absolutely correct. Best to book another girl from the same spa. If she asks you about it or gets mad, just tell her the truth - you were getting the vibe from her that she wanted space, so you gave her space and decided to see some other girls.

And you must understand that girls don't miss guys. They want guys to desire them so that they (the girl) feels good about herself. When you go see another girl in the same spa, she will only get upset in that she will start to doubt herself and feel bad about her self-doubt. A woman is incapable of loving or being attached to anyone besides her children. A woman doesn't have in within her DNA to care about a man. Don't kid yourself into thinking that she will ever care about you.

That's really rubbing it in her face. i don't dislike her that much to do something like that. besides it won't work it'll have the opposite effect she'll be happy for me though she may not like the small loss of income. my tips are a small drop in the bucket in the big picture. she has her regulars so im just one of many. i am seeking but no luck as of yet.